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I got turned on when my girlfriend Becky told she was a slut I’m the past. Becky used to have videos on pornhub and has had sex with lots of guys in her past. Most guys would’ve lost respect for Becky but I think it’s kinda hot. Whenever she tells some nasty shit she did with other dudes in the past, she does the exact same things to me. The thought of her making sex videos in her past turns me on a lot.

Becky tells me she’s glad that she had that past experience. Because if she didn’t, she wouldn’t want have known I was the perfect sexual match for her. And how she doesn’t think about sex with anyone else but me. I know these are generic lies that I’ve heard from hundreds of women. But her actions speak louder than words. She always checking me out, doesn’t notice other hot guys checking her out, she masterbates to my shirtless poster (I’ve come home early and caught her in the act), and texts me like crazy if she goes 6 hours without hearing from. Even random strangers commenting on how she seems obsessed with me.

My deep gut feeling tells me that Becky is loyal and really loves me, and that she really is sexually devoted to me. She is one of the prettiest women I’ve ever seen and no one has sexually pleased me the way she has. Aside from sex she’s a good girlfriend in general. Becky is the best cook and a good gamer 🎮. Lots of fun to hang out with. Wouldn’t wanna date anyone else.

I know most guys will think I’m a simp for saying this but, I don’t think it’s ok slut shame a girl if she’s currently loyal and submissive to you atm. And realistically, there's lots of women who get married as virgins and still cheat. Anyone you date is capable of cheating regardless of their past. You just never know how people will change. Drop your comments and let me know your thoughts on this!

This depends on the ex.

There are a 1-2 where I would gladly lead on and burn them preemptively. Reason being is what they did to me has never been done to them before. They actually need a painful lesson to see what their shitty decisions can do to people.

For example I had one ex completely ghost me after 9 months of dating after a minor argument. If she had experienced that herself (doubt she ever has) she would think twice about doing it to someone else. I however just never ghosted anybody out of simple principles. I always gave someone closure no matter how uncomfortable it was. But some people unfortunately just don’t have respect and common sense and need the school of hard knocks.

However I would just ignore others and avoid dating them. There is one girl I would have done a better job with communicating/responding with before she made a horrible decision (99.99% sure she cheated). That one could do turned out differently. But I would definitely kept my guard up.

I like to think a girlfriend is temporary even if I have permanent intentions. As men we never know the girls intentions and whether they are subject to change. Today's forever can mean the end of it X time later.

What's the point of not considering a girlfriend to be yours truly forever and ever? No surprises and setbacks. There is a reason I intend to listen to LMFAO Party Rock Athem, not Juice WRLD all girls are the same.

Can't tell them about it. They will be upset I guarantee it. They won't understand, that as men we are on our own ⚠ and therefore it serves as a protective mechanism. These are some of the darker things some men are actively not telling women.

There is a saying "She's not really yours. It's just your turn now".

Story Time: One time I used to have a "girlfriend", who claimed I was hers and all that mushy stuff about being together. But then she ghosted me completely and most likely cheated on me too. Eventually I got over it 100% but the price of such surprises is too high for me to risk once more. It's been 5 years.

Never again. I can't. Simple as that.