Search Results: is he genuine

Take for a example there is a person you have been hoping to match with at some point in life cause you think you would have great chemistry or connect so well... And they keep rejecting you over and over again. Then one day you feel like you have them where you have them, would you want to get them as a trophy or it's a genuine feeling?

I have gotten a job working at an event, however they have me doing poster rolling and working in the gift shop for 11 hours a shift. It’s for a really cool event although I am struggling to decide if I should stay or quit. I originally took the job while living abroad and planned to stay the full 2 months as it’s a 2 month temp contract, but now I unfortunately have to leave the uk and go back home to Australia. My first shift is meant to start in 2 days but I am leaving to fly home in 5 weeks. I will be giving them my one week notice but I’m not sure if I should still work a few shifts to get the company on my resume and so they aren’t put out by my last minute notice for the shift in 2 days, or if I should just quit now and enjoy the 5 weeks of no work and further travelling before I have to head home.

To add to the dilemma my national insurance number still hasn’t been approved so even if I do work it is going to be a long wait until I can receive my pay. And I am unsure if it will be approved before I need to head home so I don’t want the 11 hour shifts to be for nothing. They might be able to still pay me but am unsure if it’ll take deductions due to not having the insurance number.

It would be good to get this job on my resume as I want to continue working events in Australia. Ahh I’m so confused. Please help!

My relationship lasted 4.5 years, and it ended 2 weeks ago. We are doing the no-contact rule, so I can't discuss anything with him now. But, he decided to end it because he "felt like the bad guy," communication/compatibility issues, and my close-minded family (even though that was a minor issue out of everything). He said that he wanted to work on himself to understand his emotions/feelings better, make himself a better person, needed time/space, and he couldn't do it while we were together still. He also said he couldn't guarantee that he would return right now since he is unsure what he wants and has started therapy to figure that out. He discussed moving to another state since most of his family lives there, but he hadn't told me when he planned to leave. He even broke up with me over the phone and not in person. I asked to see him at least one more time in person to discuss it at least (we live 3 hours away from each other), and he said no.

I'm unsure how to feel about all of this besides a massive unfairness since I deserve the "best" version of him when he is done with therapy, and I didn't want to end it. I have researched his likelihood of returning online, and it seemed up in the air. The breakup wasn't the worst, and I know he still loves/cares about me to a certain degree since we did last this long. I feel like I am not getting all of the information about how he feels since he mentioned how he was "done/tired" of the relationship, but his plan after a month of no contact was to be "friends" (which could easily change now) initially with the breakup. What do you think? Do you think there's a chance of him returning after therapy? I know not to bank on it, but I wanted to see if other people were in a similar situation and what happened. His mom still supports me and is helping me process this the best she can. It feels weird because it felt rushed, and he seems indifferent about it all now. Like he even bought an engagement ring for me and everything.