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After our first date couple days later he said our life plans don’t align. When I asked what plans didn’t align he said “ just in general level they don’t align “
during the date we did talk abour our future plans.
Just find someone else it should be easy for you.
Do you think that he was genuine though?
It doesn't matter. He is saying you should find someone else. So please find someone else.
If guy says that does that mean he didn’t find me attractive?
I think he feels insecure about himself and thinks he will only hold you back from getting what you want. The best thing to do is respect his wishes and just move on. He's not worth it.
But I want him..
Why do you think it’s probably because he felt insecure
He probably though he could please you. I feel the same way too when I see a woman has herself together really well.
Could or couldn’t?
?:))
He probably thought he couldn't please you cause you have yourself together already.
when I asked him what life goals didn’t align he said ” just in general level they don’t align”. Why didn’t he tell me what plans didn’t align if he was telling the truth,?
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Are u really back at asking this again
Some people think that it was a weak excuse do you agree?
He could’t even tell me what future plans didn’t align. We could talk about it..
I also wanted to settle down.
He knew I wanted kids too
No I didn’t, what gave that impression what I wanted to do it later?
I didn’t say I want to travel. I said after 10 years I want to move to warmer country.
But how does that effects when I would like to have kids though?
Affect *
u Because if your plans are moving he could assume that would mean u want kids later on as moving to a new country with kids can make the process harder and even if it has nothing to do with having kids again just u wanting to move if he dont would be a big enough issue that a relationship wouldn't work
Why didn’t he say that to me though?
Why wouldn’t he feel the need to say it? Because I got impression by that he was making excuse
I feel like he would’ve told me if he wanted to leave the door open..
Another person here said that he probaby felt insecure that he couldn’t please me, do you agree?
Why? Because he wasn’t attracted to me?
I am insecure and his actions after the date confirm that he didn’t find me attractive in person…
I mean I want honest and neutral opinion from guy and I wanted to know if my suspicions (that he wasn’t attracted to me) were right. I’m glad you think that it wasn’t the case
It’s quite depressing when guy says no to second date when I asked him if he wanted to see me again
If it wasn’t about my attractiveness we could start talking/dating again perhaps…
He didn’t he try to see if I could compromise?
We were chatting daily for 2 months before we met
Why wouldn’t? he obviously wanted to talk to me daily
I mean one time I left on him read and texted him after a week. He seemed bothered. He said that did I notice thag we haven’t been talking. That made me think that he perhaps was getting attached to me
We’ve been 1 month no contact. I have urge to text him. Should I do it?
I feel there’s a chance if the only issue was life goals not aligning
Why are you 100% sure that he wouldn’t want to date me again?
After I week I removed him from my Instagram that could made him think that I don’t want to talk to him anymore
by the way why are you so sure that it indeed was the reason?
by the way during the date when he was talking he was most of the time looking down and not making eye contact, what do you think was the reason for that?
Why would he be shy with he if he didn’t like me?
:))?
Sounds genuine to me.
What makes you think that it was genuine?
The part about your plans not aligning with his.
Some people think that it was a weak excuse do you agree?
Maybe, who knows.
He could’t even tell me what future plans didn’t align. We could talk about it..
? :))
If he's not willing to talk about it, then what can you do?
What could be the reason that he didn’t want to talk about it?
I really don’t know.
What’s your guess?
Think it’s weak to keep asking this
genuine
Whi did he say then ”just in general level they don’t align”
But it’s like he was lying?
when I asked him what life goals didn’t align he said ” just in general level they don’t align”
He isn’t interested anymore just because of different life goals?
If he was attracted to me wouldn’t he at least tell me what plans weren’t aligned?
Doing what? When I asked him what plans didn’t align he said ” just in general level they’re not aligned”
We're talking in circles now. You can ask it multiple times in multiple ways, but the answer doesn't change.
He doesn't want to be with you.
Why? only he knows. He's given you an answer. You can ask for further detail, but he doesn't have to give it. He's not obligated and you're not entitled to it.
He doesn't want to be with you.
Just because he discovered it at a different time tian you believe he should have doesn't make it wrong or invalid.
It's time to accept it and move on. Dwelling on this won't help you move forward. If you haven't already, say your goodbyes and part ways. This phase of your life is over.
He doesn't want to be with you
Good luck
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