Is he saying this as an excuse or could it be true?

[Stinemart22]

My ex has not left me alone in almost a year since he broke up with me. There have been periods I’ve had no contact with him. He mentioned getting back together once but that was when I hadn’t spoken to him for a while. But recently I tried asking why he won’t leave me alone and If he still had feelings for me. He said of “Of course i have feelings for you but its a total turn off when you try to force me to answer questions on the spot & i dont know what I want tbh. I dont want to be alone and I dont want to be forced into a relationship “
I just wish he would stop reaching out and let me move on. And yes I’ve blocked him before but that doesn’t stop him from finding a way to contact me. I’m

[devilish-cutie]

girl, those are the worst. he doesn't respect or values you, he takes you for granted, being so selfish expecting you will wait for him forever if maybe he wants you
you really should be strong and cut it off, yes you can
tell him you can't befriends and dont talk to him, ignore him, avoid him, dont meet him, meet others

[Anonymous]

"You don't know what you want, so don't contact me until you do." - maybe?

And other than telling him not to contact you anymore, but not just that, that he needs to respect that and stay away. Ask him if he needs a restraining order to help him with it? (ie letting him know you mean it and are serious). Talking to him keeps that door open, so you need to let him know you're serious and it's closed. And if he cares at all about you in any way, he'll respect your wishes.