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As a single woman with no kids. Dating a man with kids IS a turn off. Because all your money and attention is gonna go to your children. All your love and praise will go to your children. 😒

I would prefer to start from ZERO with someone also at ZERO. A single Father is also likely to be on CHILD SUPPORT. This means if you want him to spoil you, he can’t.

Ladies, which do you prefer to date etc.

Consider that blue collars work a hazardous job (electrical, construction, mechanical, heights, mechanical) they come home dirty/sweaty/dirty nails, but makes 6 digits and provides. He is one of the workers that builds America (paving roads, building) He just has a high school diploma but makes the same money with someone with a bachelor’s degree. His job requires physical and mental abilities like learning how to rewire a car. Alcohol, vape, marijuana, dip, and cigarettes help him destress from work. He loves his burgers, steaks and sweet tea.

Consider that white collars have a office job with AC sitting on a computer and comes home from 9-5 making 6 digits. He earned a bachelors degree and he might be saving peoples lives (doctor, surgeon). His work is rewarding and given the job, it can be done remotely. It is safe, but it is a sedentary life style.

There was a male poster that was enabling the behavior of using older women (ages 30+) for sex and dump her later on because they wasted their years. He was asking if it was fun using older women for sex and dumping/ghosting them afterwards. Another guy went even deeper; he claimed to have no problem having sex and going after an older, wealthy woman for her money.

Or others that think just because a woman had a high sexual past but was later on looking for love, that she deserved to continue being used for sex and ghosted afterwards. That's just as awful as the gold-diggers leaving the guy penniless.

Aren't those the traits of narcissists and/or sociopaths. That's already a total disregard for a human being, a person with feeling and their own desires regardless of their past, age, etc. Lack of regard for a human and no remorse is a sociopath.