Break up with him or get him professional help?

Anonymous

I love my boyfriend but he is financially irresponsible. It drives me crazy he is good to me but the only issue is the finances. He never pays his bills on time. For example he owns his own company he made about 20k this month and instead of getting caught up on his bills. He went to Vegas twice plus bought new clothes and jewelry. He recently got kick out of his place because he did not not pay his rent. He has an office space he just leased and they are threatening to cancel his lease. What I don't understand is why not put you bill money to the side once you get paid and then splurge on the thing he likes to enjoy. It drives me crazy! I added him to my credit card and he maxed it out twice. Has he made any payments no He got 20k and I ended up paying off the balance because I didn't want this to affect my credit. I love him but I don't see this being resolve in our future. I don't to spend my life arguing about money. Would it be fucked up to leave now while he got us in this financial situation. He's homeless I'm trying to be there but I can't help someone who isn't helping themselves.

Break up with him or get him professional help?
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