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I Have moved on - just using this as an example to see if there’s anything I can learn for future dates.

On hinge

me “Thank you for a great evening and hope you get home safe. I enjoyed our drinks. Would you be up for meeting again?”

her “Hello (name)! Yeah got home safe thanks, had a lovely eve yeah meeting up again would be cool

Me “Glad you had a lovely eve and got home safe. Cool, I was thinking we could go to the Christmas Market. Might find a mulled wine instead of gin this time . I can do most evenings & weekend next week except Friday and Thursday. Or the week after, I’m free other than 7-10th when I’m away. Let me know what works best for you. Did you get your glasto tickets by the way?”

She didn’t respond. I left it 4-5 days. I had got her WhatsApp from the date but the last 2 digits were the wrong way around which I had figured out at this point so I messaged her on whatsapp.

me “Hey (name), it’s (name) from Hinge. Realised the last 2 digits of your number were the wrong way around. That’s why it didn’t send before. ”

her “loool oh god were they? How much wine did I have? Well done for figuring it out”

me “Are you sure you’re not an alcoholic?  Tbf, I lost count after the gin - apparently it’s a big thing at markets this year. Are you still keen on doing it again?  I can do Saturday or Wednesday.”

So she stopped talking to me on Hinge after saying yes to a second date and I suggested some times.

So 4 days later on WhatsApp I sent her “Hey (name), it’s (name) from Hinge. 🙂 Realised the last 2 digits of your number were the wrong way around. That’s why it didn’t send before. 😂”

She replied “ loool oh god were they? how much wine did I have? Well done for figuring it out.”

my reply was “Are you sure you’re not an alcoholic? 😂 Tbf, I lost count after the gin - apparently it’s a big thing at markets this year. 😂. Are you still keen on doing it again? 😂 I can do Saturday or Wednesday.”