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I realized the commute experience for those living on/near campus and those farther away differ completely. While a student on campus can wake up a mere 10-30min before class and still make it on time, for me to get to morning class on time, I need to wake up 2.5h before class. Most especially because I have to plan around buses which come every 40-60 minutes and only during some hours of the day, which means I wake up early & sleep-deprived and still arrive 30-60min before class, as taking the next bus would mean I'd be late to class or miss it entirely (if a later bus is non-existent).

Thus, compared to many of my classmates who spend ~10-30minutes/day on commute (walking) each day, I spend ~2.5h/day (walking, car/bus, metro) on my commute and the time lost due to waiting for the next mode of transport is ~0.5h/day and arriving earlier than my class is another ~0.5h/day.

Thus, based on comparisons with classmates:
Students residing on/near campus : ~0.5h/day from home to first lecture, last lecture to home
Me, as a commuter: ~3.5h/day from home to first lecture, last lecture to home

And so, assessing overall, (depending on my mode of transportation) on my longest day, I leave my house at 7:20am or 7:40am and arrive home at 9pm; on my shortest days, I leave my house at 7:20am and arrive home at 5:10pm.
Meaning on my longest day I spend 13h20min away from home and on my shortest days I spend 9h50min away from home.

But I wonder, is it my experience which is generally abnormal or is it theirs (classmates living near/on campus)?

So, how much time do you spend on commute?

My girlfriend Bianca acts like she’s not into me. For example, when people ask us how we met. She tells people “I didn’t wanna date him but my friend Becky told me to”. When that’s not even the truth. She’s the one who approached me and said “we should hang out”.

Bianca makes me feel like a simp. She acts like she’s not into me. She rarely has interest in sex. She says it turns her off how I breath so hard n deep during sex. We have sex once a week if I’m lucky. Then she acts like she’s doing me a favour because we have sex. Bianca always shows interest in other dudes and she’s not affectionate like I want her to be.

Feeling so emotionally neglected, I broke up with Bianca and immediately started a relationship with a girl named Shelly. Shelly was the best thing that happened to me in so long. The sex was amazing, she’s very affectionate, and she makes me feel like the man. But, the only problem is, Shelly lives in another city. She wants me to move to her city but I hate the city she lives in. It’s too crime infested, I know I can’t live there. And Shellys not willing to move her either. So Shelly is not forever.

A month after I started dating Shelly long distance, Bianca called me crying in the middle of night. Saying that she misses me and wants me to come over. My dumbass went back to Bianca and now I’m juggling two girlfriends. I’m emotionally tied to Bianca and sexually addicted to Shelly. If Bianca was giving me the love, sex, and affection I wouldn’t be messing with Shelly. I can’t drop either of them. What do I do?