What I think about people who spread hate/fake info online regarding relationships and dating, about girls, at the moment, and about dating apps.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Anybody who has a working job, would not have enough time, energy and priority to be on social media as often the people we see on social media are, only those who speak hate and all.

These people on social media, for most of their time(or full time), have little to nothing to do in their day. Their mind is empty and they go out to create problems by manufacturing situations to get certain expected reactions and then make a big deal out of it on social media.

As per my experience on this site; nearly all of the girls/women I interact with are either students, stay-at-home wives, or working professionals [if I miss any other productive work, mention it please]. And none of these works have enough time to be on social media, if the work is done properly.

And this gave me an insight. That only those people who fall into none of the works I mentioned, are the ones on the social media the most. And as designed, the algorithm highlights them the most.

But the final result is...people see the worst of both of genders, for the majority of it.

But since guys are more in numbers than girls, it is only natural for the overall traffic to be inclined towards girls/women more than the other way around.

This again poses a serious problem of men assuming all or very much majority of girls to be like the ones they see online. Which I really believe is really not true at all.

Hence, I have just withdrawn from any social media that propagates the spread of such content. Be it Facebook(the worst of all), Instagram, and others which are part of the mainstream social media people use, except YouTube, where I have controlled it a bit. Because I just do not want to get clouded by what I see there, which is literally just showcasing the bad apples in the stock. This site surprisingly has very small number of such girls! I am impressed!

Because let's be honest, bad apples are there in both the genders. But, why only they are showcased or highlighted? Because the good ones do not have the time/energy/priority to be there on the social media to counter. They have other more important things to work on.

Hence, all the people who read this, I firmly believe that much nicer people are there. You just need to take the effort of going outside and finding the right one. Which is easier said than done, I know. But it is the only way I see.

Instead of using the dating apps, which I truly believe have made us really superficial. We don't look at what is really needed in the person, and just keep on comparing people.

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NOTE:- If I miss anything you notice or have said anything that do not sit well with you, please voice your opinion below. Just anything...

[menina]

I agree with you. Social media also has a lot of crappy stuff. I haven't been using Facebook for the same reason.

I don't use dating apps either. But you're right, for people who are looking for dates or for a relationship it's better to do it in person.

[menina]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Guy13]

This seems to make sense but a lot of those people spreading incorrect information about relationship could work from home too...

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Considered that too.

[Guy13]

👍👍

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Our college made us do more work from home in Pandemic. I think I can apply the same for work from home people too. And they would want to be away from the screen as much as possible, I think.
You tell me please. I am not that experienced😅. The myTake is just my observation at the moment.

[Guy13]

Makes sense to me. Both Media and Department of Education are weapons of the Left.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I did not get that, but you may be right about it. I don't know what Left means here.

[Guy13]

Background on me is no TV since 18. Never personal Social Media accounts. First time on this kind of venue 2/2022. Did not know what reddit did until this past year. I work from home and timezone range11-12, 9, 4 hour differentials. Open GAG window read respond in between.

If there was no socialism and government supported homes 60% of this traffic would dissipate. Yes, it is full of bottom dwellers...

[inhua]

if bad apples are being highlighted, then the good apples need to not stay silent and call out the bad apples. that being said, people can still willingly choose to ignore the good apples in favor of the bad apples to justify their stubborn beliefs.

[Deserter]

Only about girls though, right? And only if it's negative do they not have a job.

You wrote a fucking essay just now, you don't have a job

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You are right. I am a student.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I believe you just like to say a statement and expect the other to find the right reasoning, right?

I went from ground up to justify my result, rarely leaving any stone unturned, just so that the reader does not assume any unexpected reason.

[Deserter]

In what way?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

In any way. We are creative about that.

[Deserter]

No...

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Fine.

[msc545]

Bad sampling assumptions and non-random sample selection lead to incorrect conclusions. You've made a series of very questionable assumptions and then followed with unsupportable conclusions.

[bamesjond0069]

I agree the lowest quality is online but as an overall average. However there are still high quality people online, just not the vast majority.