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We met a couple of weeks ago and neither of us has ever had such good dates and such chemistry (her words, not mine). On our forth date we slept together a couple of times and the sex was perfect. After 3 days, I sent her a text that I was thinking about her all the time and wanted to meet her again. Which is when whe texted me that I was moving too fast into this and we are not on the same page and she'd rather end it before any of us gets hurt, even though she thinks I'm a "great guy" and she had so much fun on our dates.

Today, we'll be going out for coffee to talk about it and I can explain to her that it is just a misunderstanding and she can not hurt me.

It is important that you know, I'm 26 years old, have a couple of friends and a lot of hobbies. I've got a big flat and I do all right with girls. I'm busy and not at all desperate. I just want the connection we had.

Do you think she'd agree to continue going out with me?

This girl, that I used to work with, and i started talking February. And we used to talk almost everyday. It almost seemed like neither wanted the convo to end.

We didn't hang earlier in the year until one day she visited me at work one day. She had lost her job and i didn't want to put too much on her plate.

We did hangout twice after that as well. The first time the vibes were amazing and it felt good but tbh i felt like i wqs exhausted after that day.

The second time didn't go as well as the first. It did feel different but i wouldn't say it went bad.

She said she had a good time and when i asked that we should do it again, she basically said yea but it might have to be until after August.

I told her to message me whenever she's down. I haven't heard back from her since.

she's working in her field and im trying to get my life together. If im being honest im not happy where i am at life and my confidence is lacking. And im pretty sure she's aware of that.

Nevertheless, i really fancy this girl she's amazing and And i fucking suck at dating.

Part of me thinks i should not message her because i dont want to come off as pushy