How’s everything going this week for you in terms of work/school/relationships?

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Yea so my dude and I, we never really stopped being a thing.  Like we literally haven’t even gone a day without eachother, even when I came here to vent, thinking it was over. We’re definitely still attached and he wants to keep progressing. I’m trying to go more with the flow but thats always been so hard for me. But yea we’ve practically talked every day, said the three words daily, and gone to bed together every night. This week has been a rollercoaster but things are looking  up. My ex, despite having a girlfriend, is still trying to secure a second chance with me before dropping her and her kid, and I just dont know what to say in regards to that . I told him I don’t think I’m meant for him and that I don't know if I can ever get over how he treated me those years back during what he considers a pregnancy scare. But my current dude says he isn’t threatened at all by my ex popping up. I guess we both just know I’m over him.  And as for work, its clear that I am just a number to them. I have been on my own all week and no one is willing to help.  I want to quit so bad but I guess its better to just try my best and if i fail, they’ll fire me. I don't know, but I really want to snap on them. And i’ll tell the clients if they say “You don’t seem to know what you’re doing”, I will literally say “Well you can blame the company’s poor training.” I’m so over this jobs bullshit and sketchy tactics #FeelFreeToList

Anpu23 · Accepted Answer

Oh wow, lots going on in your life. If the guy is willing to go through the ups and downs, maybe its about time to start looking at the long term. Might be time to start looking for a new job though.

My life. Wife and I are good even though we have had a tight time financially. As you know I lost my job oh 8 months or so ago. They gave me a decent severance so no big deal, went to work for a cellphone startup company. And they burned me on a lot of money snd stock. So the last two months has been very tight. Living on spotty unemployment. Now I have a possible job, but its been a bunch of "the money is coming," "it'll be a few weeks," "oh the money..." back and forth. The job is good, with decent pay, but who knows if and or when it'll come to fruition. So, do I wait for it, or get another job? I have an interview this afternoon for a part time in a field I am highly qualified for. But I'm torn. Meanwhile, my company, the one I own, is in line for a business development grant. So it'll be another option for income.

I don't know.

But good luck to you.

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

As for your ex, I wouldn't bother giving him the time of day if he's still with his girlfriend. That's super shady and disrespectful to both of you. You're right to be over him after how he treated you before.

It's good your current guy isn't worried about your ex popping back up. That shows he trusts you and knows you're into him. Just take things slow and see where it goes - no need to stress.

That job definitely sounds like it sucks major balls. I don't blame you for wanting to quit either if they're not training you properly and leaving you on your own. You should definitely stand up for yourself if clients give you attitude about not knowing what you're doing - that's on the company, not you. Maybe start looking for something new so you're not so miserable?

Don't let any of this drama get you down. You seem like you've got a good head on your shoulders and know what you want. Just do you and keep your chin up - this too shall pass!

DreamLife7 · Accepted Answer

I think it's like that at majority if these organizations. Cause I feel the same way just a number with no help at all. But since they want to be that way I'll treat them like a number too and not care.

My work week weird as fuck. My patients moms boyfriend tried to get with me and told me that he won't tell the patients mom. I told him cool story bro but I have a boyfriend. Like wtf dude can't even speak English got a translator on his phone asking me questions and dude is living off the patients mom. I don't know why she just won't leave him. He's such a cheater. She keeps going back to him. I want to tell her but she has to leave on her own.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

This week has been a little boring cause my zoom group got cancelled on Thursday and my parents left for the airport on Sunday so there has been nobody to give me rides to the Chinese super market so I can buy sushi or noodles or spring rolls. And then my dad told me he was extending his vacation so now I have to get my friend to drive me to the store to buy food and she is very busy these days because of obligations she has.

iron_ninjs · Answer

Nipp the ex thing is n the budd, before he does something that will ruin your current relationship.
So no improvement on the job front? That sucks.
My job's okay so far. One colleague and I are ina " battle ' of sorts with our manager. He promised us a raise 4 months ago, and we still didn't get it. So that's the only thing that sucks ar work. We did mention that we wouldn't put out the quality of work we usually do, unless we get a raise. In our contract, it is stated that, if we reach the quota that is written down, on a regular basis we get a raise every 3-4 months ( not a big raise, but hey, a raise is a raise).

kellytheman · Answer

Well I just celebrated my 10 years at my job got a nice certificate, pin , and $100 bonus and a chance getting a raise at work. Even though my long term girlfriend moved to Paris we still do talk back and forth just talking about things going on. I do have a 22 year old girl who are just friend with benefits relationship and been having a good time with her.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

Nothing new with the fam.

Work: Getting accustomed to lifting and moving everything is killing my muscles. Becoming more relaxed around coworkers. Seen a few cute girls around the store.

And I got some good news about my corn.

I'm content.

nawtee_me · Answer

So what you are saying is, no need for chickens just yet? lol. As for the ex, if he would drop his girlfriend if there was a second chance with you then he would drop you if there were a second chance with some other girl down the line…. You don’t need him…

Now for this guy… if you two or fighting and still together, well that is different isn’t it? Oh and those three words are, “you stupid ass”, right? lol

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Like I got shot in the balls with beanbag rounds. Been crummy for me. Stop entertaining your ex with conversation and block his ass.

smilelots · Answer

well the week is not over but im still single just been camping for a few days and got back school is done for me long ago and i work for myself.. , life is good but lonely sometimes ,,

RavVid · Answer

I have less relationship trauma because I don't have one currently and get along well with myself.

the_sinner · Answer

Work was better than last week and tomorrow’s salary day so….. Yay.

I’m single so far and I was pretty much cool with it but since last two weeks I’ve been hella horny and I’m using the fleshlight too much this week.

Redstang88 · Answer

Work is boring, personal life nonexistent and just spent 16 grand on my truck and it’s still not fixed. That’s how my weeks going 😑

exitseven · Answer

Well, you are certainly been full of surprises. I hope it all works out for you

MysticDevice · Answer

Work sucks lol. Busy, and short handed. Almost over though.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

We've got Friday off because it's a holiday in Australia.

Slim57 · Answer

Horrible, broke, got poison oak, got a sore throat for 2 days straight now, but the relationship is going good at least

Anonymous · Answer

I got cheated major major cheated... and I'm stressed like hell...

Phoenix98 · Answer

Same as usual same shit different day.

eagle1951 · Answer

sucks

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