How’s everything going this week for you in terms of work/school/relationships?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea so my dude and I, we never really stopped being a thing. Like we literally haven’t even gone a day without eachother, even when I came here to vent, thinking it was over. We’re definitely still attached and he wants to keep progressing. I’m trying to go more with the flow but thats always been so hard for me. But yea we’ve practically talked every day, said the three words daily, and gone to bed together every night. This week has been a rollercoaster but things are looking up. My ex, despite having a girlfriend, is still trying to secure a second chance with me before dropping her and her kid, and I just dont know what to say in regards to that. I told him I don’t think I’m meant for him and that I don't know if I can ever get over how he treated me those years back during what he considers a pregnancy scare. But my current dude says he isn’t threatened at all by my ex popping up. I guess we both just know I’m over him. And as for work, its clear that I am just a number to them. I have been on my own all week and no one is willing to help. I want to quit so bad but I guess its better to just try my best and if i fail, they’ll fire me. I don't know, but I really want to snap on them. And i’ll tell the clients if they say “You don’t seem to know what you’re doing”, I will literally say “Well you can blame the company’s poor training.” I’m so over this jobs bullshit and sketchy tactics #FeelFreeToList

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So i’m a little sad. My dude had to wake me at 4am because he goes out the country today. Its gonna suck not being able to talk until he's back Monday night. But the way he repeatedly said “i’ll miss you” and THEN “i love you” so calmly/slowly/genuinely before he left made my day! However, my ex is tryna talk today and then my HS guy friend (from linkedin) wants to come visit me today. Lmao lawd I rebuke them in the name of… wooh 🤣 I’m going to just try to spend the weekend studying for work

[Anpu23]

Oh wow, lots going on in your life. If the guy is willing to go through the ups and downs, maybe its about time to start looking at the long term. Might be time to start looking for a new job though.

My life. Wife and I are good even though we have had a tight time financially. As you know I lost my job oh 8 months or so ago. They gave me a decent severance so no big deal, went to work for a cellphone startup company. And they burned me on a lot of money snd stock. So the last two months has been very tight. Living on spotty unemployment. Now I have a possible job, but its been a bunch of "the money is coming," "it'll be a few weeks," "oh the money..." back and forth. The job is good, with decent pay, but who knows if and or when it'll come to fruition. So, do I wait for it, or get another job? I have an interview this afternoon for a part time in a field I am highly qualified for. But I'm torn. Meanwhile, my company, the one I own, is in line for a business development grant. So it'll be another option for income.

I don't know.

But good luck to you.

[DizzyDesii]

He and i were always on an UP until we said the three words Sunday night. Then Monday is when things got iffy. Monday night, Tuesday night and Wednesday night things were perfect. But he's was so different and unsure of himself and us come Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday morning. Today is the first MORNING this week that his words match the night before. So I don't know if he's finally over his insecurities or whatever I don't know. But I do still love him enough to keep building. Its just i got mixed signals this week and it might scared me off from longterm a bit more. It made me not want to commit because i never know when he's gonna be unsure of something. As for work, this is my new job 🤣 Its going downhill so quickly. I had lost my job earlier this year but i didn't file for unemployment. I lived off my savings and it hurts to see that drop so i get it. I definitely hope you ace the interview because you deserve a job that is sure they can pay you. I wish i score another interview so i can leave this one because the training was very poor

[Anpu23]

Thank you, and good luck on the job hunt yourself.

[Anpu23]

Thanks for MHO

[Oliverlogan263]

As for your ex, I wouldn't bother giving him the time of day if he's still with his girlfriend. That's super shady and disrespectful to both of you. You're right to be over him after how he treated you before.

It's good your current guy isn't worried about your ex popping back up. That shows he trusts you and knows you're into him. Just take things slow and see where it goes - no need to stress.

That job definitely sounds like it sucks major balls. I don't blame you for wanting to quit either if they're not training you properly and leaving you on your own. You should definitely stand up for yourself if clients give you attitude about not knowing what you're doing - that's on the company, not you. Maybe start looking for something new so you're not so miserable?

Don't let any of this drama get you down. You seem like you've got a good head on your shoulders and know what you want. Just do you and keep your chin up - this too shall pass!

[DizzyDesii]

Aww thank you so much

[Oliverlogan263]

You're very welcome

[DreamLife7]

I think it's like that at majority if these organizations. Cause I feel the same way just a number with no help at all. But since they want to be that way I'll treat them like a number too and not care.

My work week weird as fuck. My patients moms boyfriend tried to get with me and told me that he won't tell the patients mom. I told him cool story bro but I have a boyfriend. Like wtf dude can't even speak English got a translator on his phone asking me questions and dude is living off the patients mom. I don't know why she just won't leave him. He's such a cheater. She keeps going back to him. I want to tell her but she has to leave on her own.

[DreamLife7]

Dudes a whole bum and his nails are dirty yuck like wtf

[DizzyDesii]

IM definitely in the not caring phase rn. I’m ready to tell them off about their poor training. My supervisors keep saying they are not assigned to me and the people i’m supposed to be shadowing never come in. So i’ve just been making my own notes hoping i dont look too stupid in front of these clients come Monday. And yea if he's cheating and she knows then she's basically saying its okay at this point so he won't change and she won't leave unless someone swoops her off her feet

[DreamLife7]

Yeah I looking for another job too preferably work from home cause I don't have time for these upper management folks. They're lazy af and don't want to train anyone. Are you looking for another job? Right , like I'm not even gonna waste my time cause I don't get what she sees in the bum. I could never deal with a guy like that

[DizzyDesii]

This is my first week at this new job lol. And theyre already trash. So yea im about to start looking. And i’ve done wfh for 5 years now

[DreamLife7]

🤣😭😭 omg so nah u can't leave yet. What type of work is it? I'm ready to work from home cause I'm tired of people.

[DizzyDesii]

Still trying to figure out what it is im doing because it sure ain't what the description said versus what im being trained on

[DizzyDesii]

And i still have to deal with people even from home

[DreamLife7]

But people aren't in your face right?

[DizzyDesii]

You have to be on cam all during training and some wfh jobs now require you to communicate with clients by camera. But for the most part, yea no ones in your face

[DreamLife7]

Camera! at least you can hang up on them when needed and don't have to see whoever you talk to everyday

[DreamLife7]

Thanks for the mho

[jennifer_bloom]

This week has been a little boring cause my zoom group got cancelled on Thursday and my parents left for the airport on Sunday so there has been nobody to give me rides to the Chinese super market so I can buy sushi or noodles or spring rolls. And then my dad told me he was extending his vacation so now I have to get my friend to drive me to the store to buy food and she is very busy these days because of obligations she has.

[DizzyDesii]

Hopefully it gets better

[iron_ninjs]

Nipp the ex thing is n the budd, before he does something that will ruin your current relationship.
So no improvement on the job front? That sucks.
My job's okay so far. One colleague and I are ina " battle ' of sorts with our manager. He promised us a raise 4 months ago, and we still didn't get it. So that's the only thing that sucks ar work. We did mention that we wouldn't put out the quality of work we usually do, unless we get a raise. In our contract, it is stated that, if we reach the quota that is written down, on a regular basis we get a raise every 3-4 months ( not a big raise, but hey, a raise is a raise).

[DizzyDesii]

I feel like just his presence ruined us a bit this week although my dude said he wasn't bothered. And no yesterday the job left me on my own the entire 8 hours when i was supposed to be shadowing someone. I’m glad you’r estanding your ground about your raise. And wow any raise every few months sounds amazing! I heard my job only gives them annually

[kellytheman]

Well I just celebrated my 10 years at my job got a nice certificate, pin , and $100 bonus and a chance getting a raise at work. Even though my long term girlfriend moved to Paris we still do talk back and forth just talking about things going on. I do have a 22 year old girl who are just friend with benefits relationship and been having a good time with her.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn you ain't waste no time lmao

[kellytheman]

Well I kinda already knew her and she said if I ever break up with my girlfriend she be there for more than more than one way. I guess I am still on the rebound.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Nothing new with the fam.

Work: Getting accustomed to lifting and moving everything is killing my muscles. Becoming more relaxed around coworkers. Seen a few cute girls around the store.

And I got some good news about my corn.

I'm content.

[DizzyDesii]

Yay for the corn!

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Indeed!

[nawtee_me]

So what you are saying is, no need for chickens just yet? lol. As for the ex, if he would drop his girlfriend if there was a second chance with you then he would drop you if there were a second chance with some other girl down the line…. You don’t need him…

Now for this guy… if you two or fighting and still together, well that is different isn’t it? Oh and those three words are, “you stupid ass”, right? lol

[DizzyDesii]

He and i have never technically fought. He just can't seem to communicate sometimes. Communication was great before this week. This week he's been hesitant to speak his mind but today he finally pulled through

[ShadezMcgee]

Like I got shot in the balls with beanbag rounds. Been crummy for me.

Stop entertaining your ex with conversation and block his ass.

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes what was the shot for? And i am trying to avoid him but the closure is nice too. Especially seeing him speak of regret with how things ended between us

[ShadezMcgee]

I wasn't literally shot with anything. I was using it as a metaphor for it being shitty. Like a kick in the dick, only difference is I got shit with a beanbag. A lot more painful with swelling and risk of rupture. That kind of week.

Closure happened when you broke up in my eyes. No need to discuss anything afterwards or further. Once I got my say with my exes, I called it a day and moved on. No more talking or contact.

[DizzyDesii]

Wow thats a new metaphor to me 😂 How did closure happen when ending? We didn't talk about what went wrong. We yelled and ended immaturely. So here we are 4 years later actually discussing why things went how they did. I saw how i was the problem the same year we ended and i worked hard not to do those same things to anyone after him. But he didn't see how he was also the problem until this year when i explained to him. So he's finding it very eye opening but claiming its making him want a redo and that he thinks im for him despite me saying all week to him that I’m not meant for him. And it doesn't help that our nicknames are the same so its hard not to cross one anothers mind every now and again

[smilelots]

well the week is not over but im still single just been camping for a few days and got back school is done for me long ago and i work for myself.. , life is good but lonely sometimes ,,

[DizzyDesii]

Hopefully you won't be lonely for long

[RavVid]

I have less relationship trauma because I don't have one currently and get along well with myself.

[the_sinner]

Work was better than last week and tomorrow’s salary day so….. Yay.


I’m single so far and I was pretty much cool with it but since last two weeks I’ve been hella horny and I’m using the fleshlight too much this week.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao being horny is probably part of why i had a hard time detaching 😂 I understand there are plenty of “easy” opportunities out there but i dont feel like starting over emotionally with someone to even get to the physical

[Redstang88]

Work is boring, personal life nonexistent and just spent 16 grand on my truck and it’s still not fixed. That’s how my weeks going 😑

[DizzyDesii]

Omg its crazy how expensive stuff is just for it to still not get fixed. My dude works on planes but he's really good with repairing hvac and cars as well. When someone breaks down on the side of the road, he basically just fixes their stuff for free cause he hates seeing people be financially taken advantage of at auto shops

[exitseven]

Well, you are certainly been full of surprises. I hope it all works out for you

[DizzyDesii]

I hope so too lol

[MysticDevice]

Work sucks lol. Busy, and short handed. Almost over though.

[DizzyDesii]

Shoot i’m only 3 hours in 😩

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

We've got Friday off because it's a holiday in Australia.

[DizzyDesii]

Oooo what holiday!

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

Australian Football league day

[Slim57]

Horrible, broke, got poison oak, got a sore throat for 2 days straight now, but the relationship is going good at least

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes i feel bad for you but tht slick rhymed

[Slim57]

Haha I didn't even realize

[Anonymous]

I got cheated major major cheated... and I'm stressed like hell...

[DizzyDesii]

Cheated in what way?

[Phoenix98]

Same as usual same shit different day.

[eagle1951]

sucks

[DizzyDesii]

Aww i hope it gets better

[eagle1951]

all alone now nothing to do lonely

[DizzyDesii]

You gotta find what makes you happy

[eagle1951]

ok come here lol