Search Results: are some guys just emotional

While book-smarts or street-smarts help a person in specific ways, Emotional Intelligence is what we use most in the real world -- it's the mindfulness, awareness and processing ability we have for both our feelings and the feelings of others.

Current research indicates that those with higher levels of EI draw others towards them... They're people who others genuinely want to be around for the long haul -- at work/school/relationships. Their kindness and compassion towards others shine through their EI, as does their ability to own up to their own decisions (instead of blaming them on others) and to treat others with respect and dignity.

Here 's a quick 20-point quiz for you guys and gals -- the most common signs of EI

(+1 for each point you "sort of understand" and +2 for each point you're really good at):

• Being able to know and accept yourself for who you are (with all your quirks and experiences)...
• Being able to accept responsibility for your actions and decisions...
• Being able to accept change as a standard part of life...
• Being able to control emotions rather than raging and lashing out and flying off the handle with verbal/physical outbursts...
• Being able to forgive yourself -- to show yourself some grace -- by leaving past mistakes in the past...
• Being able to talk through problems and challenges with others...
• Being aware of your own strengths -- and being able to admit to them...
• Being aware of your own weaknesses -- and being able to admit to them...
• Being modestly confident and poised -- and keeping your cool in challenging situations...
• Showing empathy and compassion -- putting yourself in another person’s shoes and seeing things from their perspective...

The scoring goes by 5s (see the poll, which keeps answers anonymous). Don't share your score in comments if you don't want to.

(Those with a low score wondering how to raise EI can search Google for free materials that are very helpful.)

What it really was only kissing involved in the cheating (nothing else, just kissing) or an emotional affair where it's an emotional, romantic bonding. However, they never did anything physically sexual (no intercourse, no oral, no fingering, none of that) so therefore you don't have to worry about any STD.

Can that type of cheating be forgiven? We all know a full-blown affair and sex is obviously worse than kissing and romantic words. I'm wondering because some guy was forgiven for a drunken kiss. It was confirmed by others that it really was only a kiss.

When in reality he is the victim.

the man is searching for his phone in the water.

the gang starts taunting him, belittling him to a point most wouldn’t stay silent to.

Yet he doesn’t speak.

His reaction instead he sort of makes a rush into the water and pushes the circle ⭕️ things that some of them or on.

he then proceeds to walk looking around while the gang is laughing 😂 off smiling verbally assaulting him nonstop.

they then surround him, getting in his face put their hands on him when he had not talked or touched any of them.

they then start to push him into the water one after another before he can even get back up, another one of them pushes him back down and slap him. They continue to do this repeatedly as the man attempts to get back up.

the guy that died, you can clearly see him rush Into the man and shove him back into the water while the man was already down in the water attempting to get back up.

After he shoved him, he throws himself at him, and that’s when he gets stabbed.

Sad he died but he did this to himself!

what business did he have going in to attack this man when he was already being attacked by the whole group?

and they all laughed while doing it.

they only screamed when he started to defend himself.

the media is sickening. To not show these parts of the video. And only want the viewers to feel sorry for the oh “poor kids”. As they repeatedly say to get our emotional side. “A man stabbing “kids””

they were drunk and drugged 17- 24 year olds. They are NOT babies.

they attacked this man.

they couldnt just let the poor man search his phone.
They thought it was funny to assault him and not only that but get physical with him and not expect him to try to defend himself?

where is the commonsense in these people?

for me it’s simple.

Don’t attack someone that’s not doing anything to you, and then scream the victim when they decide to hit you back just because they hit you back harder.
It doesn’t work that way.