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So refer to my other posts about her for context on our relationship between each other and dynamics etc. So I was checking my Instagram today which I do once a week to a few weeks and was in my messages section and noticed on the preview it changed from her reply back to me on a story she posted a few weeks ago to now saying “ this account can’t receive your..” so I checked in depth because I was like wtf this supposed to mean and turns out she had unfollowed me. I don't know if she been unfollowed me for awhile and she just changed her dm privacy settings or she literally just unfollowed me in the past week or so because last time I checked my messages about a week ago I didn’t notice it saying anything like that. Last time we interacted was a week ago through text and opened up to her about feeling really sad since it was the anniversary of my mom passing away and the girl is religious so she sent me multiple paragraphs of encouragement and Bible verses and had asked her if she needed prayer or anything and mentioned her pet recently passed away and was extremely sad so sent words of encouragement the next day and she didn’t reply. Was planning on giving her some space and check in on her next week but now I don't know if I want to or even if I should. Should I I play it cool for a few months when I return to her youth group and invite her out to catch up and stuff and then ask her about it?

Second part is did you help them any or did they just go back to being self destructive?

In highschool my best friend was a goth girl and she had such bad torment at home. Last year of highschool we dated and she liked her pain and pleasure.

We experimented with a few things and after stopped any self harm for a time. Broke up in college ldr.

8 years later she messaged me on Facebook checking in. She had 5 kids and a very abusive husband and it showed in her pictures.

She said I was the best boyfriend but she deserves this and she might have a 6th but it's not her happy ending. That I deserved my girlfriend and kids some day!

Broke my heart but people choose Thier own life. Some broken people can't be fixed and want to be broken.

I had an interaction with a girl at the gas station. I am wondering if anything was there or just my imagination.

I pulled in and a cute girl was pumping gas to my left. She finished as I was getting there. I did a few things and then left my vehicle. I was naturally facing her and we made eye contact. She was looking down and we caught each other's eye. She looked away quick and looked back to me quick. It was like a surprised look like I caught her attention and she was checking me out. I normally downplay any attention from girls so if I think she was checking me out it seems obvious to me that she was. I smile.

I pump gas and I'm blocked by the pump. The normal amount of time, maybe five minutes. I can't see her but she is still there. She hung around probably ten minutes longer than normal because I thought she was leaving as I pulled in. I finish pumping gas and I see from my peripheral vision that she is fidgeting with stuff in her car still. She is looking for stuff in her purse for like 8 minutes without ever accomplishing anything. It just looks like she is pretending to be busy. I get in my car and do a few things. It's time for me to leave and I am headed in her direction. I look over to see if she is going. She has her purse in her hand and is still fidgeting. When I look at her, she looks at me, immediately puts her purse down, and then we continue to look at each other. It seemed like she was pretending to be busy with her purse and immediately stopped when I looked at her. I just looked like who's going first and then left. She left right after me. Pretty anti-climactic. But it felt like there was something there. It looked like she checked me out and stayed longer than normal pretending to be busy. She then was immediately not busy and tried to make eye contact with me. But how would it have played out any different? Does it sound like it would have been alright to start a conversation with her? Was this anything or am I just imagining things?