Did she want a 3some love triangle?

[Anonymous]

Long story short

There is a girl in my workplace, I proposed her, she didn't even react.. So I just move away from her as I think she is not interested in me and then she would give attention to me.

So this went on and on, she comes closer I go away, I go closer she goes away

One day when I was trying flirting she tells me she has a boyfriend (if it's real why the fuck didn't she tell me earlier?)

Some days later I asked again why did she reject me, she told she already has someone and proceeds to tell " I CAN BE WITH YOU BUT I CAN'T BE WITH YOU" wtf is that supposed to mean?

I just played the situation cool by saying " OK this is gonna create problems in all three of our lives " and left her

I put my resignation and I left that company and joined another company, and stopped talking to her completely, months later she contacts me just to get to know what I'm doing in life and once I told about the new company I joined, as expected she stopped talking

So she was basically checking whether I'm dead or alive

I met her in the worst phase of my life, I just wake up everyday bcoz of responsibilities once those are completed I don't find a reason to live, that's the time I met her and literally saw her as a reason to live this life

How time changes so quickly
As big smoke told in gta sa " same things makes us laugh, makes us cry"

[DaddyDiablo]

I dony thINk she really wants her partner to know about u but I think she is playing games just like how you're playing games too I dont see this working out like how you envisioned your little fantasy to work out or to be tbh

[Asker]

I was not playing games with her, I had to start ignoring her because she started it first

Yes I knew it's not gonna work out and I stopped all contacts with her months ago

[DaddyDiablo]

But you kind of are playing games if your just going to shy away after her attempt of whatever shot she had and then you with your shot you decided to take and of course the whole cutting all ties or whatever just to go back and then back and forth with her is playing games my boy stopwith the foolery and get with her if she's clearly showing signs of wanting you to be a home wrecker

[Asker]

This back and forth game was going on months ago and when she is ignoring me how can I damage my self respect by chasing her?

And I don't play those games no more, I had cut off all contacts with her long back and neither she tries to contact me

[DaddyDiablo]

I dont understand your question damage your self respect? N so I'm lost are you trying to get people to tell you to try n get back with her or what is it you're really trying to do now that it's apparently been months n shit like I'm sorry I'm just now confused as fuck

[Asker]

No dude, I'm not trying to force opinions out of others
Knowledgeable people can tell me raw unfiltered truth and opinions
I would take that

And what I'm trying to do now is I know that there is no chance of getting with her and I don't want to get with her either
How can I love someone who tells me " I can be with you but I can't be with you"
And if she really had a boyfriend why to hide that?
Or did she see me as a backup plan...

But I can't get her out of my mind I think I still love her subconsciously
But I can't put emotions over logic

Yes, I need to move on

[strateguy632]

She doesn't

[Asker]

What she doesn't?