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After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.

Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
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I’m just out of a relationship and still hurting. Why is my friend forcing me to get back out there dating?

I know it’s not bad, but this rant is because I have a friend who invited herself into my dating life and won’t butt out. She got out of a relationship herself about a year ago and got right into another one. Granted this...
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What do you do in the process of separation?

Husband is very manipulative, demeaning, a cheater, and a non-present father. I've tried to leave before but always somehow find myself forgiving and getting roped back in. This time I'm determined for it to be different....
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I Tried Going Back to Vinyl

I'm old enough to have had an actual record player in my house when I was a kid. We weren't allowed to touch it, but it was there, sitting in the corner, but even then, rarely if ever used. I grew up on cassettes and CDs,...
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Am I an idiot for thinking my guy friend liked me because he gave me 3 dozen pink roses?

This was several months ago now. I had a classmate from my cohort. An international student from Europe. Our career path is very female dominated, so he's one of the only guys in the class. He's also one of the only good...
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Is she just lazy and why would she do this?

My friend was in the military. When he got discharged he got another job. He made good money. His wife filed for divorce and is playing the victim making up lies about him. She’s never worked since she got married. Her...
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Car mechanics - I'm getting conflicting info about carbon buildup due to only driving locally / short trips, every single day - what gives?

I've googled the problem (carbon build up, difficulty starting unless pushed with accelerator, and sometimes wants to stall pretty often until warmed enough) - the cars certainly reaching plus 20 years old however I'm...
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I've googled the problem (carbon build up, difficulty starting unless pushed with accelerator, and sometimes wants to stall pretty often until warmed enough) - the cars certainly Show More
It's on the way out regardless of car age
Take it for a car service they'll clean it out, should be good as new then the engine. Or back to its usual self prior to the "carbon issues".
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My mom slapped me during an argument and I pushed her, but why should I be the only one apologizing?

We had an argument, she slapped and I reacted by shoving her and screaming not to ever hit me again. Needless to say she had a pikachu reaction, as if I had done the unthinkable. It's a reaction to getting slapped hard....
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Do you think the modern generation is gate keeping love?

Maybe not gate keeping but there’s these unspoken rules nowadays or changes that maybe were fine a decade or two ago that suddenly make you weird or a creep or worse and in some cases it’s valid but in other case I feel...
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I proposed with a recycled ring. If she loves it, and doesn't know the history, is it ok?

Long ago, I made a couple mistakes in a past relationship and I tried winning her back. I proposed twice within 4-5 months apart and she declined both times. I lost someone unique that shows up once in a lifetime. I was...
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Can a mental disorder suddenly appeared for no reason at all?

My younger brother (whom is now 22 years old) was normal until two months after his 14th b-day. One day I caught him talking by himself with a Husky. He claimed the dog spoke to him, to believe him, that he's not...
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How to make my family understand that our neighbour is touching me inappropriately?

My family has been living at this rural town since centuries and we know almost everyone around us. So this neighbour of ours, who lives 5-6 houses from our house is now in his late 60s/ early 70s and has very well...
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Am I crazy for being bothered with him still? Or no?

Back in 2017, after I had given birth to my daughter, her daddy got someone else pregnant. He hasn't been in her life for 7 years. So, one night when I was at the bar, I met my now ex-boyfriend. We started talking, having...
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After a Relationship Ends: I Miss You Even Though I Don't Love You

Breaking up is not an easy thing. Sometimes the most complicated feelings come not at the moment the relationship ends, but much later. Missing someone even though you know you don't love them anymore... Isn't this a...
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To me, friends and relationships are the song Nutshell by Alive in Chains. Where do I go from here?

If you haven't heard the song, I recommend giving it a listen, in my humble opinion it's the saddest song ever recorded. Anyways, I've opened up and given my heart to 3 women. All of them have broken it. The 1st one, my...
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Do you think I should just give up wanting to have children and dare men who don’t want them because I’m 35?

I was told that I’m 35, still single and I’m too old to be having children. I was told on here that 35 is young for a man but so old for a woman and getting into relationship, Im self centered, using my mom’s death and...
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How do you see this?

When I was married a decade ago, I had an affair with a 22 year old guy. My wife was 10 years older than me, and I just lost attraction to her as she aged. She got fat, wrinkly etc. Our sex life stopped completely. We...
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Would you judge a guy or girl negatively for wanting to remain abstinent until marriage?

I think I made the decision for myself a while back that I really don’t see myself getting involved with someone in that way but my reason isn’t religious. The main logic behind my decision is that I know there’s no birth...
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Would you be offended if one of your friends did not want to go to an after-party or celebration of life party after a funeral?

So one of my friends drank himself to death over the last few years. He died a couple months ago and he was 3 years younger than me, but he looked like he was 65 for fuck's sake. I'm at work and it's 3:00 in the morning,...
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Is he interested, nervous, or insecure?

So I met this guy he’s 2 years older than me. We’ve known each other for a week and 3 days. The first time we got together we clicked so well. We come from a church background and we like to sing. That was a turn on for...
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