Search Results: guys talking about looks of other guys

Does my guy friend like me?

So for context we’re both (now former) coworkers, he’s in his 30s and I (late 20s) just started getting a HUGE crush on him. We’re both interested in a lot of the same things like music, Guitar Hero, some old cartoons,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Where is my headspace with this coworker for 7 months now?

I’m a quiet, reserved girl — not really the outgoing or flirty type at work. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I don’t usually give much attention to other guys. But since February, I’ve noticed one...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I pique his curiosity naturally or because of my ex? What is he up to? Why did he wait to talk to me?

Recently, a guy that I've seen around for 4 years approached me. We started talking. A couple of weeks in, he said I'm not what I seem to be. He says he has some female friends and asked if we could be friends. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I go about the talking stage with 2 guys?

Hello! Looking for advice so this might be a bit long. I haven’t dated for a long time. In 2019 I went on some dates here and there eventually finding a friends with benefits situation. That was on and off until 2022. by...

chihiro_21

Xper 4 Age: 28

What does it mean when a guy says you're not who I thought you were and then ask for your phone number? Based on my situation, is that a bad thing?

So I've had this happen a couple of times but I get mixed results so I can't really pinpoint anything. But when I'm at work, I'm quiet and I try to stay to myself. Sometimes, guys approach me, and they've seen me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there a big chance I will become a housewife if we were to get married?

I've always been terrified of the housewife life. I'd seriously rather die than be trapped doing housework all day, every day, for decades. I currently am in an LDR with a guy who's from the other side of the world. We're...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Does perfume attract men and turn men on? Should I stop wearing perfume?

So I love perfume and I like getting compliments on my perfume from women and men, but sometimes I feel like men use it as a reason to invade my personal space. I always have to slither away. I like gourmand perfume....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Were they hitting on me?

At work, a guy walked up to me gave me a fist bump and told me I was so pretty. He never flirted with me, he just diverted his attention toward my other other coworkers next to me, talking to them. I've also had another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

She wants to be just friends but lets me sleep in her bed with her?

So I dated this girl who told me at the end we should just be friends, and I was like meh ok and didn't hear from her for a few weeks, then we started talking on the phone for hours at night time and made more...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is it hard as a 23 yo woman to find a guy who actually wants a relationship?

I took a break from dating after my ex and 2 years later I decided I was ready to go on dates again. But now guys no longer approach or ask on dates. I looked on Reddit and TikTok to see if anyone had any idea why and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What do you think happened?

I was really cool with this guy I work with until suddenly he stopped talking to me. Nothing serious, nothing flirty between us but it just felt good to have someone to get along with at the job. We don't work on the same...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does this guy want my attention?

So I’ve been talking to this guy for 2 months. It’s been pretty good obviously we’ve had little fights n shi sooo i had just followed him back on instagram no too long ago. (I like making a scene to prove my point)....

andreaaaaaaaaa

Xper 1 Age: 56

Is he interested?

there is a barista who is above average friendly towards me. Every time i order, I have to tell him my name and he remembered my name since day 1. On the second time I went to order, I didn't even have to tell him my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you not let rejection ruin your self esteem?

The dating scene has done a lot of damage to my self esteem. I don't go out much but upon the few occasion that I have, I have almost always gotten rejected at every outing. At one point, my friend and I went to a party....

Anonymous

(25-29)

What was this all along? Am I over thinking to much?

To start off with I have not been in a since 2021 - my partner of 10yrs died and was grieving him for a long time until 2024 when friends recommended to do tinder just to at least talk to a man and honestly maybe have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why don't guys really express their feelings? And what am I supposed to do?

Okay so for context me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now we live kinda far from each other but he's amazing but my boyfriend is depressed which I knew already so that's nothing new but when he's...

thatgirlrinrin

Xper 1 Age: 19

Why did he change?

So basically I had a guy friend. We started off as a friend and then he told me he liked me but I wasn't ready for a relationship cause I was scared. He would buy lots of gift fir me after few weeks of just knowing him,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, How likely are you to completely forget a woman you spent hours with... to the point that you chase her again?

A guy I was starting to see (~a year ago) starts reconnecting this past week. Things have been very odd over the past year (too long to write out) and something now seems to be shifting. I don't know what it is, however...

DishLady

Master Age: 52