Search Results: how to bring up sex

Does he just want sex, i’m getting mixed messages?

how easy are you to get withwhen drunk would you leave your friends on a night out to go home with a guy Asked me what i’m like when drunk eg flirty etc Always asks if i’m seeing anyone or if i’ve been going on dates...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Do we need a new law in place specifically aimed at false accusations of rape and DV?

It seems like whenever this is brought up, people dismiss the issue by saying that perjury is already illegal. I'm no legal expert, but I don't think perjury covers most false accusations because I don't see anyone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, He complains that we’re not having sex, but when I want to have it I always get rejected?

We have a unique situation. We met in July, he dumped in August then came back in October then wanted a second chance in October (which I stupidly gave him and now I’m questioning why since now he’s starting to pull...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I heal from this? Was I wrong in my reaction?

I had been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. Him and I had a history prior to this for about 2 years, and I think he knew my feelings for him had never really gone away. Things never ended well between us before, but he...

sunshineflowers789

Xper 1 Age: 27

He ruined my life… why am I not allowed to ruin his?

Why was it okay for him to disrespect my boundaries regarding sex… to make someone feel safe in the beginning just to be hurtful and bring up things that I didn’t want I feel triggered by his actions because of things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why was it okay for him to disrespect my boundaries regarding sex… to make someone feel safe in the beginning just to be hurtful and bring up things that I didn’t want I feel

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Feeling very unwanted/undesired in my relationship?

I really feel unwanted and under-appreciated in my relationship and it's starting to really hurt. I feel like I do all the giving but never really get anything back. I pay for most things most of the time in our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I've been talking to this guy and he's much more manly than any other guy I know. What's your experience with men like this?

He's tall, he's physically strong, and he can hold his own intellectually too. He knows how to fight, one time he changed my flat tire, another time he brought a drill to fix my door hinge, and another time he built a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I found scratches on my boyfriend’s back. What should I do?

Saturday night, I saw four scratches on my boyfriend’s back while trimming his neck. They looked like someone had scratched him during sex. When I asked, he gave excuses—work injury, his daughter, or me (I keep my nails...

keira

Xper 5 Age: 36

How slow is slow?

I'm dating a girl who is fairly reserved, introverted, and religious (she's 26, I'm 34 for whatever it's worth). We've been dating for over a month now and aside from holding hands and a peck on the lips, we haven't done...

animalwithin

Yoda Age: 36

I feel lonely. How do I stop it turning me into a horrible negative person?

I' feel jealous of the guy i like cuddling his girlfriend at night. I feel fed up of putting on an act of positivity for casual sex guys. I just want to give and receive love and companionship. And not online! There's...

Crimsyjo

Guru Age: 47

I haven't seen my man in 11 months, do I tell him I want to hook up with someone else?

I haven't seen my man since 6 months pregnancy. The baby is now born and 8 months. 11 months total of not being in the same country. Most likely more then a year will pass before we are reunited as a family. The distance...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do men actually believe it doesn't count as cheating if he isn't serious about you?

I just found out my boyfriend slept with multiple women 3 months ago. I asked him about it and he said he had been faithful to me since we started talking 7 months ago. When I brought up evidence I found that he cheated 3...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Can a American explain to me how this policy and timing is acceptable from a VP?

Kamala is a globalist. Blacks target Bush with Katrina but Kamala is actively trying to replace whites, she's a communist. While actively being devastated and destroyed by hurricanes, FEMA having no money or training, the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

We by is it so hard if I don’t need much?

Why do men make it hard even though I don’t need them for anything besides sex? (In a relationship I only require spending time together but I’m not with relationships just looking for hookups now) Shouldn’t they be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

Do schools have an obligation to teach accurate & complete concepts? Even topics beyond sex ed? Should each district decide locally?

Would you risk fines/jail to provide accurate curriculum for your community? Is this a perfect example of why tenure is necessary? What sex ed topics are so extreme that they should NOT be taught? Do you believe that...

DrPepper12

Master Age: 53

Girls, Am I too old to be feeling this way about a guy?

I'm 24, and I've been on nine dates with this guy and I'm really attracted to him. He's 28, and he's tall, well built and has presence in a room. He compliments me and has taken good care of me when he took me out. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I slept with a coworker now he has slept with another coworker?

I slept with a coworker and we spent so much time together over the summer. We even went on a nice date during the 4th of July. We begin to have a sexual relationship and we got to know each other kids. He has two...

Anonymous

(30-35)

In my early 20s and dated 2 girls. In the midst of dating process, I found out some things about myself which have me questioning about dating?

The first girl that I dated was between my highschool and college freshman year. It started in school and turned into LDR. It was a shit-show of me getting blocked because I either said something 'bad' or didn't reply on...

Robo-Duh

Xper 4 Age: 25