We by is it so hard if I don’t need much?

[Anonymous]

Why do men make it hard even though I don’t need them for anything besides sex? (In a relationship I only require spending time together but I’m not with relationships just looking for hookups now)
Shouldn’t they be happy I’m easy to get with and don’t demand anything?

They only respect women that make constant large demands. Not because I don’t need anything from him means I’m low value!! I’m comfortable providing for myself. The only thing I can’t give myself is male companion, so thats all I need/ask

Besides they want me to ask them for things that they can’t or simply won’t make happen. So what’s the point of even bringing them up with them? I take care of me, while you be nice dude who gives affection; nothing more nothing less…Simple , no?
At first they agree then they try to make it more then what it is.
Ex: I told a few guys no texting unless we are meeting up to have sex and they still continue to ask me how is your day, get emotional, etc. it’s every guy I try to hook up with and it gets worst after the first time having sex with them. When did men get so clingy? Just hookup!!!

[MrOracle]

Here's why:

Lots of women SAY this is what they want, but once they start having sex, they want much more, and get upset if they don't get it. Most men have learned this lesson, often painfully. So, they simply don't trust that you mean what you say, because the other girls who have said this didn't mean it. Well, they might have meant it when they said it, but their feelings (and thus their expectations) changed once they were having sex.

You are also likely dealing with younger guys who aren't as mature, and aren't as in control of their own emotions as they need to be in order to be in the kind of relationship you are looking for.

[Asker]

Thanks for your reply. It’s a mix of ages. It’s worst with older men though! I thought that old men would be you know… And they keep repeating my expectation in a type of tone that is supposed to make me change my mind and make things serious. Like a guilt trip thing. It’s so feminine.

[MrOracle]

My only advice is to spend more time explaining to them that you aren't looking for anything more, and that you know that women who say that are usually not telling the truth, but that you actually mean it, and will be turned off and will end things if they push for more.

That's your best route to success, and it's also really your only real solution.