Am I just needy?

[Anonymous]

Feeling a bit sad or disappointed because my boyfriend is gone for two weeks on vacation and he barely texts me, doesn’t call me nothing. I just feel a bit sad about that and I don’t know if it’s toxic but I feel bad because I feel like he’s enjoying himself more without me. With me he never even wants to leave his room but now he gets to go to Disney World. He’s going to the mall everyday too and he usually doesn’t even go out. I just feel pretty bad that he doesn’t call me or anything. He’s been gone for like 5 days so far we don’t live together or anything by the way.

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When he’s with me he never wants to go out. Been going to bed sad every night thinking “why doesn’t he call me” meanwhile he’s having the time of his life without me. I think I’ll just refrain from texting him now

[watercolor_lions]

When people go on vacation, they go as a group. A lot of times the group stays together, and decides to go places. It is a waste to just stay in the room and do nothing. So it makes sense that he is out and about. I am a little surprised he hasn't called or texted you at least once.

It sounds like you're not very happy with your relationship, though. It doesn't sound like being needy is the issues, so much as you two just don't want the same things. Are there any other areas in your relationship you have a problem with?

[Asker]

He has been texting me but he takes forever to respond we do text everyday though. We both have the same goals for our future together. Right now he’s posting and posting but not texting me back. I just feel bad

[watercolor_lions]

He might be posting so EVERYONE can see his vacation. Maybe you should comment on his posts.

[Woodchuck411]

That is definitely a toxic relationship you need to give a lot of thought. If you don't know what he's doing that's not a good sign but also who is he on vacation with

[Asker]

His older brother and his brother’s wife. And I do know what he’s doing he tells me he just is barely texting me

[Asker]

He was posting pictures of where he was but not replying to my texts until 12-1am. He told me that he would call me today but he only said it because when he told me that he loved me earlier I said “If you love me why don’t you call me?” And I’m just tired of having to tell him everything like everytime that I want to hang out more that I want him to actually make plans stuff like that

[Brando10222]

It's normal how you feel