Search Results: how to change his mind

How can you tell the difference from a guy distancing himself because he no longer likes you vs he likes you but is trying not too?

What would be signs between the two? Is it possible to tell? How can you tell if he’s just changed his mind and no longer likes you vs he still finds you attractive but knows he can’t be with you. Context is you both have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Valentine's Day

Why hasn’t my crush text me back?

So I texted my crush (let’s call him Devin) last night to see if our Valentine date is still in for tomorrow. He didn’t respond back so I though he’ll text back in the morning. It’s like after 5pm and he STILL hasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are the chances that guy will change his mind after rejecting someone?

So usually I go to office in plain tshirt and pants, but since I've heard that his type is girly, I've changed my style into dress and heels also put on some light make up. Before the changes, he rejected me and asked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would it be wrong to quit seeing someone because they have a little kid?

Long story short, been casually seeing a guy for a couple years. He asked me to do dinner and a movie earlier. Now he’s talking we may have to just do brunch tomorrow because his kids mom is still an hour away in slow...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Should you refund a transaction if you’ve been honest and they changed their mind?

I did because who knows how this person would’ve acted.. but he has money so shouldn’t matter. Anyway, he came to pick up a dresser and knew the exact dimensions and then came with an SUV instead of a pick up truck so I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I did because who knows how this person would’ve acted.. but he has money so shouldn’t matter. Anyway, he came to pick up a dresser and knew the exact dimensions and then came with an

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I struggle with my boyfriends financial situation?

My boyfriend is 18 and I am 20 years old. Neither of us are in any debt, but I do struggle with the fact that he doesn't have money. Let me explain before you guys call me a gold digger or tell him to work harder. A few...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Women, would you date a bisexual guy?

I matched with this guy on a dating app and we've been talking for the past four days. He asked me out to get food. But afterward I realized he's into men as well. I don't want to change my mind about the date because I...

Candiegirlx

Xper 1 Age: 39

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex-Jessy a very hateful person person?

From the last time I saw Jessy it was 13 years ago yeah 13 years ago when he broke it off with me while Jessy slam his breaks on his dodge Truck up until recently now Jessy he is 30 about to turn 31 next month. It's very...

Alwayreckles93

Yoda Age: 33

Guys, Why is my boyfriend suddenly beefing up his online profile?

I’ve noticed over the last two weeks that my boyfriend is beefing up his online profile. (FB) It used to not say much about him at all, but now he is putting everywhere he went to school, where he has worked and currently...

Anonymous

(36-45)

We had an argument over his adopted sister and I feel like he wants to break up with me? what do I do?

she’s like 14 and i get that she’s just a kid, but whenever me and him are together he always just wants to talk about her. but her attitude towards me was just plain rude and was unhappy and i didn’t know why it was like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my boyfriend so lazy?

How do you deal with a super lazy boyfriend? He sleeps all day, avoids work, and keeps pushing responsibilities aside. I love him, but his lack of ambition is driving me crazy. Should I wait for him to change or move on...

eniqma

Xper 5 Age: 43

Why does he pull the carpet from under me?

I can’t work out what is going on … I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.. everything is great however he gets really excited about doing things and taking me to places then changes his mind when I mention actually...

Finfin1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

I dumped my boyfriend because I can't wait 5-6 years to have kids, isn't this a valid reason?

Our ages are 26 and 35 but when we first met in March 2023, I thought we had a common main goal of having a large family (3 kids at least) and I wouldn't wait more than 3 years. We had a serious conversation recently to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do you think I'm in the wrong for having my aunt come stay in my house?

So I'm 31. My brother is 27 if that matters. I live with my mother. My brother and I bought a mobile home in 2017 with some money our grandparents left behind for us. I moved back to my moms after about a year of living...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I get back with my ex? part two?

If you haven’t read part one go do that because if you haven’t this is about to make no sense. I said yea I know I just don’t know what I would do without him and stuff like that but the more we talked the more I realized...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

My boyfriend (M36) is always suspicious of me (F36) all the time. How do I make him feel more secure?

My boyfriend thinks I'm always up to something. We have been together for 2 years. He is a 2.5 hour drive away. I drive to him nearly every weekend unless he tells me not to as he has plans/when I have a family...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

I'm all for equal rights but are certain things going too far?

I'm all for having equal rights but there are two things that for me would be going too far against the established norms. I'm not obligated to follow them anymore (thanks to us having more rights than in the past) but...

Anonymous

(36-45)