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Initially I ticked all her boxes that she was looking for in a guy. She recognised I’m a nice guy, kind, sensitive and gentle. We had a good connection. I was consistent and attentive towards her, emotionally available. Made tule to see her a couple times a week.

I am also a rare find and from a very good background

Reasons she left:

She thought I was a player and cagey with my phone and untrustworthy. I was cagey as it is personal, but always reassured her and I think I showed her my phone/messages like 3 times.

I didn’t make her feel special - because I did 50/50 when I earn more than her and come from money. I have only been working for a year. I didn’t buy her flowers, I did for Valentine’s Day and bought her a plant in the early stages.

Didn’t like how I was consulting family members at the end about the relationship

I didn’t lead sometimes and did make her switch her brain off. She has a point when we went on a weekend she planned it. But she also tells me she’s not a passive person as she’s a professional.

I feel hurt. It was my first relationship. If I could go back there’s not a lot I would change just cherish her more? I didn’t make any fundamental errors, obviously times where I could’ve been nicer. There was on time I shut her down a bit because she didn’t want to move in with my family.

I want a girl that likes me for me. So I pay for the first 5 dates then split 50/50. In my case with my ex, we setup a joint bank account and put equal money inside. She agreed to this.

Then when we were about to breakup suddenly, you didn’t make me feel special. She knew I’m not looking for a gold digger and a girl that likes me for me. Especially as she knew about my background before meeting me!!

I make double her, and come from a wealthy background. I do go after pretty girls and she did say she’s used to being provided for.

Is there anything wrong with what I did?

If she actually liked me she would stick it out right? Not to mention I was good to her, consistent and caring/sensitive!

I have had a 3-in-1 Weather Station ever since I left my parents to move into my own home.

It's also sometimes called an Aneroid Weather Station or a Banjo Barometer.

I have mine inside my home and includes a Barometer to measure atmospheric pressure, with a drop in pressure usually signals rain, or a rise in pressure nice weather. A thermometer that measuring air temperature, and a Hygrometer that measures the amount of moisture or humidity in the air.

There are some Weather Stations with 4 or 6 dials and these add extra functions like a quartz clock, tide tracker, or comfort indicator.

I usually look at and adjust my Weather Station most days, and it's usually accurate, though I also make use of professional forecasts when I'm going out on my bike for a long ride, or visiting somewhere perhaps on a vacation.

Even my cat thinks Weather Stations are important, because it's better to sleep on the sofa if the forecast outside is going to be cold or possibly be wet weather.

My cat complained my Weather Station was too high up on the wall to see properly, and brought it down to a more viewable lower level.

Obviously I couldn't tell my cat off for wanting to make use of the same information as myself 😄

Do you have a Weather Station in your home, do you find it accurate?

What is your opinion?

If you are really rich is it okay to split bills with your beautiful girlfriend who makes more modest money?

You pay for like the first 6 dates then split it 50/50.

Reasoning, both are working and you’ve only known her for a few months. You as the man don’t want to be used for money/date a gold digger. You want a girl that likes you for you.

Is that fair play?