Search Results: how to treat an ex

Do men respect a woman who stands up for herself?

My ex said he doesn’t respect me because i stick around him, and allow him to come back into my life even though he treats me poorly. He is 100% aware of his behaviors but is an addict and has mental health issues. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)

Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Dating

Why do some men not take no for an answer?

I’m so sick of men asking me out and then when I tell them no, they think that means ‘not right now’ or ignore and disregard my feelings and keep trying to ask me out later on a date. I was asked out on a date on...

Charlene193

Xper 2 Age: 34

Why would he try to (get me to) break up, but say he’ll fix things every time?

A year ago I finally fully ended things with my ex. He was extremely emotionally abusive. He’d use the things he knew would hurt me most and do exactly that or worse. At the beginning, he even abused me sexually for about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he tell me all his exes are whores?

this guy treats me really well, invests so much time and energy into me. also super funny and we have same interests and get along well, he’s kind of cute and i know he likes me since he’s told me upfront. but, whenever...

lamuñekita

Xper 3 Age: 27

Society & Politics

Is pardoning insurrectionists the way to win an election so it sets a bar to throw a fit if something doesn't go your way that this is acceptable?

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ron-desantis-pardons-commutations-proud-boys_n_64f94e24e4b039d866524c2e DeSantis Spots Room For 'Pardons And Commutations' Among Sentenced Proud Boys Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis suggested...

legalboxers

Editor Age: 49

Would you expose your friend, if you found out terrible things about them?

My (now ex) best friend was a really sweet, kind, and caring person. I found out some things about him that caused me to have a mental breakdown. It was so far from the picture he painted of himself. I didn’t know what to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Spoke to a friend about an ex and now I just dont feel like talking to her. Does it mean I'm not over him?

I just hated that I revisted my relationship that was over 4 years ago. I spoke about it in detail and I just feel annoyed at the whole situation and I don't feel like talking to this friend because she was asking about....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Favorite (bad) ex texted?

Hello, I'm 27. I dated this guy almost 3 years ago for like 6/7 months. I knew his family and friends, I was SO in love with him. He broke it off with me cause he was still into his ex. Long story short, we still hung out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I gave my ex a second chance after he asked me to get an abortion and now I’m pregnant again?

Me and my ex broke up last year before we broke up, I found out I was pregnant. He told me to get rid of it. He harassed until I got rid of it for a whole year straight. He has been asking me for a second chance. He says...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to move on from this situationship?

A coworker, but we don't see each other everyday, rejected me romantically, she said she isn't ready yet for a relationship. I think she still can't get over her ex, and I took it as a no. However she contacted me...

Mwarren33

Xper 1 Age: 35

Why do ex girlfriends become nightmares after a breakup?

It’s like she’s made it her personal mission to ruin my life. She was emotionally and physically abusive in the relationship and now even after the relationship has completely dissolved you can’t have an adult...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was I wrong to cheat in a forced platonic relationship?

I had a relationship with a girl that lasted just over a decade, it was a serious relationship where we were to get married eventually and our families, both kinda traditional, approved. The girl was never really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why is it people find it creepy if someone 25-29 mid to late 20s dating or in a relationship with a legal aged teen 18-19?

My fiancé is 18, I turn 25 in October and I get people would wonder what on earth would we have in common given he is new out of school, meanwhile I graduated 6 years ago and I’ve been an adult for nearly 7 years but he’s...

Paulalove98

Xper 7 Age: 27

Dating

Is life supposed to be this miserable?

•The guy I love is married to an uglier woman and only wants me for sex. (He presented himself as a single guy long time ago) that’s why I just suffered in silence because those guys are not worth it. •There’s another...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my ex treat me so bad while I was treating him good in our relationship?

Before my then boyfriend (30) and I (23) moved in together we barely had any problems he came to my house 5 days out the week he got along with my child and I thought he wasn’t talking to anyone besides me because we had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to forget my first love?

I fell in love since I was 13 and I still can’t forget about him (he’s 10 years older) I’ve travel , I work 7 days 12 hours I’ve met other guys but when I see him I still feel that love. Back then he wanted a formal...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would an ex make a joke about turning his ex into soup?

Last time I saw my ex in person he claim that he was joking that I am way to sensative. When he laugh and saying he imagined me turning into soup. Why? Why treat th mother of your children like trash?

Alwayreckles93

Yoda Age: 33