Why did my ex treat me so bad while I was treating him good in our relationship?

[Anonymous]

Before my then boyfriend (30) and I (23) moved in together we barely had any problems he came to my house 5 days out the week he got along with my child and I thought he wasn’t talking to anyone besides me because we had each others passcodes. Once we moved in together I started to cater to him I was cooking cleaning washing his clothes doing his skin care routine and etc. After a few weeks of living together we started having problems when we got into arguments he would push and pull on me he has borrowed almost $900 from me. he stopped getting along with my son and told me he’s not use to being around someone’s child 24/7 he has cheated on me several times with his baby mother and told her information about me he has harassed me into getting an abortion and he has done a lot of other stuff we have been broken up for 10 months and he still comes around begging me for a second chance or to be friend. A few weeks ago I agreed to be his friend since he wouldn’t leave me alone but I cut him off after 2 days because I don’t want to be bothered with him he claims he has changed and regret treating me the way he did he’s constantly asking me to get pregnant by him again because he’s “hurt” that I didn’t keep our baby and he wants to give our relationship another try every time he contacts me I cuss him out and block him but he creates new numbers or pop up at my house if he couldn’t treat me right why is he trying so hard to get a second chance?

[Screenwriter]

Abusive men need captive audiences. DO NOT LET THIS MAN BACK INTO YOUR LIFE! Get a restraining order from the police. Block him on all social media, change your phone number if needs be. And see a counselor for support getting this man out of your life.

He wants to impregnate you to have control over you and to abuse you further. Never let a man treat your child badly and repeatedly cheat on you,. He's shown you who and what he is. He is not a friend, he is not trustworthy,

Abusers are ALWAYS sorry and always say they will never treat you badly again. And then they do exactly what they said they would never do, Find a good therapist and work through this, Protect your child from him and yourself,

Once a man like this gets his hooks into you, you could end up emotionally bereft or physically injured or both. He is a liar and a cheat, Keep repeating this mantra and PROTECT YOURSELF using the courts and the system,

If you need to MOVE.

[devilish-cutie]

because he didn't find anyone better

[Flatmanlewis]

Because he’s a narcissist or damaged. No amount of “love” can make a mean person nice. No amount of caring can fix a man who doesn’t care about other. The beauty, saving the beast, is a myth.

[Blueeyes81]

Because you gave him hundred of chances before so he thinks now is no different.

[PeteA380]

That happens often to girls who were 2nd or 3rd wife's children. What's your ethnicity?

[DextroShade]

You sound like a trainwreck.

[Wise4myage]

He's an ex for a reason.