Why is my ex asking me to celebrate Mother’s Day with him after making me get a abortion?

[Anonymous]

Last year while me and my ex where together we planned a pregnancy we broke up 3 months later and I took a pregnancy test after our relationship ended just to make sure I wasn’t pregnant. The test was positive and when I told him he was disappointed he told me I trapped him and he didn’t want anything to do with the baby he treated me bad and threatened me until I got an abortion. A few months after I got the abortion he contacted me asking for another chance he even said we could have another baby just so I can take him back I told him no. So he asked if we could be friends I agreed but after a while told him I didn’t want to continue speaking to him. When I ended our friendship I blocked him on everything and now every once in a while he still contacts me using fake numbers or he pops up at my house he told me he wouldn’t give up on us, he will beat anyone up he finds me taking to and he’ll continue texting me even though he has a girlfriend now. He has a child with someone else and he wanted me to get an abortion so bad so why is he asking me to spend Mother’s Day with him

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You can't determine with any certainty WHY he behaves as he does. What you should be asking is how should you respond to his behavior, that that would turn the focus on YOU and YOUR responsibility for your life.

2. He talked to you and you agreed to get an abortion. He didn't "make you" get an abortion and, legally, he has no right to force you to get an abortion or to prevent you from getting an abortion. If you want to start growing up, you should take responsibility for the horrible thing you did.

[Anonymous]

Because he's a loser. It's a good thing he isn't your problem anymore.

[IAmAzzurra]

Because he’s unhinged & messing with you

[chicken_nugget24]

I'm so sorry, he is awful for doing that to you

[Anonymous]

so he can make you feel worse. that's why.

[dudeinohio]

He's your ex. Don't go.