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Search Results: hurt by my ex
Do I ruin my chances to get my ex back by screwing his friend?
Couple days ago I hanged out with my ex-boyfriend’s friend and I got drunk and he sorta raped me. I told him not to tell anybody and did a pinky promise. the next day. He blocked me and told everybody in town that he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is being called “kind” and “sweet” a compliment? Is kindness a weakness?
I don’t think I am kind at all. When my ex and I broke up, he called me again after break up, concerned and told me “You are very kind, please, be careful with who you trust, be selfish. Never say “sorry”, I am sure...
Trust issues & moving past them?
My girlfriend got with me by cheating on her boyfriend (who she didn't tell me about when we first met & began seeing each other) & when she finally did, she told me she would leave him, but this turned into 6 months of...
Anonymous
(36-45) What should I do when the guy i'm dating is too sensitive?
At first, some of it were my fault because I kept disappearing on him due to my own issues mental health etc. We've been talking for 3 months and the first few times we talked on the phone, he came on too strong and...
Ofoceansbeaches1
Xper 5 Age: 35 Would you ask if he slept with someone else while you were broken up or is it best to not know?
im curious but i know it would hurt me if he did. So is there no point? by the way backstory is I got back together with my ex. He broke up with me 3 months ago.
kareenakapur
Yoda Age: 29 Colleagues still hanging out with my abusive ex?
So I was together with my ex for a year, he was really mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive. We met when I started working at his workplace, we worked together for 6 months and when I started he had already been...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I being spiteful and jealous of my co-worker?
Dearest readers, I work in academia. I am a doctor and expected to publish papers. My friend is an editor and I help him in editing, reviewing, organizing conferences, marketing etc. I am doing this because he is my...
Anonymous
(36-45) Independent Women, if you spell it out loud and clear you want to kiss a guy. It means something right?
There’s this scenario where someone I’ve liked for a long time who I had been flirting with over two years. And at the end of this wine tour where she had been giving me “fuck me eyes” the whole day and making sure I...
Anton35
Xper 6 Age: 33 My long distance boyfriend didn't contact me in almost 2 weeks? Was I right to break up with him?
He contacted me today, complaining actually cuz i didn't even text him n he was sick (which i didn't know) n his work is demanding making him too busy. His work is busy, so we used to call on Saturday n Sunday cuz n just...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it ok to hate him or that I’m stuck on detachment. I know hating an ex is some way of being connected but I’m over?
I rejected the guy owing to my personal trauma. He was madly in love with me and I’m yet to find someone who is soo much in love with me till. My personal trauma stems from abuse, neglect and my friend trying to seduce my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Ex said he wants to have more kids after pressuring me into having 2 abortions because he “wasn’t ready for more kids”?
While in a relationship my ex pressured me into having 2 abortions the first pregnancy was planned and the second one was not. both times he told me he was not ready for any more kids at the moment and he didn’t want the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever forgiven someone who severely hurt you? Why/Why not/how did you forgive them?
For me, forgiveness is a journey, and in the end, it improved who I am as a person and made my future relationships better. I was in an abusive relationship that consisted of mental and physical abuse, manipulation and...
Anonymous
(36-45) I don’t know what to do?
I don’t actually understand how guys work they don’t make sense to me like if you don’t want me than just tell me that shit won’t hurt me I can take it but instead they don’t do that they plan a whole stage to lead us on…...
ZainabAli123
Xper 5 Age: 32 Why would my ex text me on WhatsApp that he miss me and wants me back and also when I back searched through a friend, why he was in bumble too?
Should I go back to him? So we were together for 2 years in a relationship where he had proposed me on 3rd date. Suddenly he uncommitted to me after 1.5 years of our relationship and stopped having sex with me too. And...
sadstrawberry
Xper 5 Age: 29 Why is a guy friend too emotionally attach with me?
Lately, my guy friend has been sending me messages asking me how i am, letting me know what his plans are without me asking and consulting me about things but he noticed I had become nonresponsive. At first, he was...
Ofoceans
Xper 4 Age: 35 Girls, if a guy is kind of abusive in a relationship, is it better for her if he leaves or if she does the step of letting him go?
She might have had her reasons why she broke up with him. But when she said (she told this story another guy by the way) that the next day she didn't feel better, I wondered what that guy did that made her break up with...
scooogy
Master Age: 34 What does he mean by “Not right now” Is he implying there’s a maybe he could love me again?
Him: Go get your back blown out like the whore you are you deserve it Me: You love me don’t lie Him: I don’t love you, I use to not right now Me: Not right now? Ooo! Right now.. Okay” Him: Fuck you” *hangs up*...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I make his walls come down any advice and why some guys think this was?
To start off he’s been hurt by an ex back in high school she never gave him closure after their breakup, she doesn’t trust him. Fast forward to recent like these past months and years he thought he had to play it safe...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, Reconciling with an ex?
I'm tearing apart inside. Life's been going good, slowly improving. I've been getting better. And yet still I've always dreamt of her. Of reuniting and reconciling with her. Even through other women passing in the night...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girl I went on a few dates with said she has genuine feelings for me, but isn’t mentally ready for a relationship?
Been on a few dates with a shy girl who only recently broke up with her abusive ex boyfriend. Yeah. I walked into this. Anyway, I noticed her interest waning over the last week and she’s not the only girl I’m seeing so I...
Anonymous
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