Search Results: i became insecure

Why do I fall in love with men who don’t want me?

Usually in the beginning it’s mutual then they end up avoiding me, talk to someone else, become rude, short…. They end up changing and I try sooo hard to hold on. One guy said he pitied and felt bad for me bc I did not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

As a white American male why do I feel like I have this natural tendency to want to disconnect, socially ostracize, and remove myself from society?

When I was younger I used to be really insecure and heavily concerned about trying to fit in. But nowadays I honestly don’t give two flying f*cks that I have barely any friends. The small number I do have are perfectly...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

How do I become less insecure of my ex’s past?

Hi. My boyfriend has had a past where he has had flings, and long term relationships. To be honest, some of the girls he was with make me insecure because they are super pretty and he seemed to have liked them a lot but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do I become more confident in starting conversations?

At my age there are a lot of expectations and of course emotions. Right now I feel like that’s bothering me. I’m relatively new at my school as I’ve only gone there a year. I have one best friend who’s always been there...

pacifyherrr

Xper 4 Age: 18

Is my ex trying to get me back?

I left my ex several years ago because of infidelity issues he didn't want to admit. He didn't want me to leave but respected my decision, though I knew he was quite devastated by it. We didn't talk during that time until...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

What’s wrong with me and why do I hate myself so much?

My entire life I’ve always been insecure, however as I’ve gotten older it’s only become worse. I’m always upset with myself and I never want to eat anything because it makes me feel so disgusting. I constantly weigh...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Boyfriends work hours have increased can being exhausted cause him to act a bit distant?

This is my third post about my partner, I am feeling insecure especially since losing my husband, my mum has dementia and in a care home, got anemia, then I had to have surgery, the menopause which is making me worry I...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

He's a fuckboy?

I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions. There is a girl he has...

Dominque44

Xper 2 Age: 23

Why does my Husband makes jokes about fucking other women?

He’s knows it will tempt me to become jealous or insecure😕

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can you have a relationship and opinions at the same timd?

Every guy I know wives the girl who is quiet and an echo chamber for whatever he believes. Like being smart embarrasses him cuz he has to know more than she does. Guys keep calling me interesting or wild for having...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I stop being so insecure about my boyfriend potentially leaving me or cheating on me?

TLDR is if you don't have the energy to read (I understand): In the past 2 years he's done a lot for himself both for looks and financially, while I'm still the exact same I just want to explain the difference between how...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Do you like wearing your shirts tucked in or tucked out?

It seems like the latest trend nowadays, I don’t know. I don’t keep up with trends. I wear what I like to wear. I personally like wearing my shorts tucked out, but I have ticked on my shirts. I wanna tuck in my...

MizzArtFreak89

Xper 5 Age: 36

It seems like the latest trend nowadays, I don’t know. I don’t keep up with trends. I wear what I like to wear. I personally like wearing my shorts tucked out, but I have ticked on

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Should I respond to someone who ghosted me and came back after three months to apologize? If so, how?

Things were quite up and down between us and moved at a very quick pace physically and emotionally but then he started going through a mentally tough period which caused issues. He became flakey and left me insecure. It...

GirlwithaQ

Xper 3 Age: 33

Hi guys i’m very insecure sometimes what could I do?

after my boyfriend cheated on me i became very insecure like i’m not all that, be honest what could i improve on every aspect, i’m not gonna do that ofc i think i’m gonna with him again

cecilia200512

Xper 2 Age: 21

My friend is jealous of other guy friends and is ruining friendships I have with them?

Long story short. Yes I know this guy has a crush on me, he admitted it and I politely declined his invitation to start dating as I only saw him as a friend. I gave him the option to still continue being friends or...

Tephra

Yoda Age: 29

Why doesn’t my boyfriend take me out anywhere?

hi guys, my boyfriend of nine years barely takes me out anywhere. i asked him why he doesn’t and he says it’s because he doesn’t get any reward from it and that i’m boring. it makes me sad because he goes out with his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend threatens to leave I want to leave but can't but I lost my virginity to him and feel like no one else will want me what should I do?

I'm a college student and he works at a retail store since he didn't graduate HS. 2gether for a year. So a little background me & my boyfriend we started out rocky, I treated him bad in the beginning of our relationship,...

Anonymous

(18-24)