I was interested in another guy. I think he likes me too as we have quite a lot of sexual tension and flirting but I have noticed him with other friends and I don't really like their interactions.
There is a girl he has been friends with since 2018 and she was his close guy friends girlfriend. But they broke up. However, he seems way too close with this girl. She keeps throwing herself at him to hug him and tries to touch his hand, hold his hand. She was even touching his hair, telling him how rough his hair looks. He's mostly just patting her on her shoulder but I have noticed her staring at him a lot while talking. She keeps introducing him to her friends, inviting him to events and constantly messaging him.
I think she tried to tell him that she wanted more but he started to get distant from her and getting angry at her when she tried to tell him. My friend who works with him at the cafe (part time) saw them and witnessed their conversation.
But even after this, she's still messaging him, trying to hold his hand, hugging him etc.
He also seems to have only female friends because he keeps a public calender next to my desk and each person he writes down for meet up is a girl. I also saw a picture of him on a couch with another girl and their legs very touching each other.
I find it very uncomfortable that he seems to encourage these women to touch him and seemingly has no boundaries with women whatsoever.
However, with me, he is different. Initially, he would hug but I declined to have casual sex and he stopped hugging or touching me. He became sulky and passive aggressive with me. He acts reserved and stoic with me whereas with other women he is laughing, talking etc.
I dont know if I should pursue this guy or he's just a player who is insecure about his short frame (5.5) and needs to surround himself with women to feel better about himself. What should I do in this case since the guy seems like he has no boundaries with women?
