Search Results: long hours on the phone

I was in kind of a relationship with a girl with a girl from different city. She wasn't generally available for chat or call. She rarely initiated any chat from her own side and if I messaged her she replied after quite a long time.

Her reason was that she is very busy with house work and that she keeps her phone on silent mode generally.

She has a habit of sleeping early by 9:30 in the night and waking up by around 8 am then doing household work , taking care of her brother's family and his kids. Then sleep for three hours in the noon 2 pm to 5 pm. Then work again.

So , she doesn't have much spare time for me.

I always questioned about her feelings towards me because of her behaviour.

Recently she got really furious at me and texted really harsh thing about me , my family and also body shamed me and then blocked me.

Now , what should I do? I have texted her (SMS) sorry to her later.

I am 29, and my girlfriend is 26. We are each other's very first serious relationship. We met on New Years Eve, dated, and we officially became boyfriend/girlfriend at the beginning of February. Not long ago, I took her virginity.

Moments ago, I just had a conversation with her on the phone. I raised concerns that I hardly get to see her. On average, we see each other once a week for a few hours. I have yet to really interact much with her family. I only saw her mom once on New Years Eve when I first met my girlfriend. I met her brother once. And I have only had a few brief conversations with her dad when I pick her up at her house. I have been expressing for a while now how I want to get to know her family. I haven't been invited into her house beyond the foyer when I pick her up.

Meanwhile, I moved out of my mom's house a few weeks ago and leased an apartment in hopes my girlfriend would see me more. So far, that hasn't really worked.

The thing is, she doesn't really conversate well on the phone. She even expressed that herself.

I finally told her today that while I am giving her the benefit of the doubt now, eventually it is going to be a red flag.

I walked into this place where my crush is and I of course look at her a lot without her noticing sometimes

But today she looked at me when I was near her without me prompting it

It reminded me of this. When I had a long distance friend they would text me at early hours of the morning say 3am and I would wake up the moment they would text me without even planning it and my phone is on Do not Disturb

so dear friends - is there some connection between me and my crush on her end you think? I know I have room for her as a connection but I don’t want to project that onto her

There is a woman I am completly and utterly in love with and have been from the second I heard her voice over the phone when we spoke to each other the first time for work.

It didn't take long for us to form a friendship. Almost immediately. And over a short time we became very close emotionally. We were talking to each other several times every day, but never meeting in person. We met once when I drove to her town on her birthday. I was there for something else but if I'm honest, that thing was an excuse to try and see her. She agreed but I think we were both shy, not many words were exchanged and I left feeling soo deflated. Until she phoned me a couple of hours later and asked why I didn't want to stay with her longer. We called each other 8 times that day after meeting in the morning.

She supported me when my Grandad died. She knew something was wrong and called me to find out. I don't know how she knew, there was no way she could, but she did. My Grandad was my favourite person, and she helped me through it.

This relationship has existed for 2 years now. Although we are not as close as we once were. She used to answer every call whether she was available or not. Even in her sleep. Now she goes hours before texting me back, if she texts back at all. Its been worse over the past couple of months. She won't take my calls, and she texts me as an aquantance rather than a friend. I really miss the relationship we had, and I miss her.

My life before her was not good. She tempted me out of my shell in to the big wide world and has inspired me to live my life. I'm doing things now which I never thought I'd ever do. I'm developing and becoming a better man for me, but because of her.

I want to tell her all of this. I want to thank her before I lose her entirely. I don't know what her reaction will be, I think she won't respond at all and that will be the end. But I don't want the regret of not telling her. I have enough of those.

Is sending my text a good idea?