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I found this comment on a film on transgender on youtube. I had mixed feelings about it. What do u think?

”Im wondering if transgender people feel like they want a dick/vagina, and thats what it means to be transgender. I mean if a girl wants to act like a boy and does boyish things (whatever that means) doesn't mean anything but if she wants to have a dick that means she is transgender? Is wanting a sexual organ change the deciding factor of a transgender? I dont understand the idea of transgenders genuinely. And if a girl wants to be girly but also want a dick, does that still make her transgender? I dont understand how the desire of a change of sexual organ changes your personality. You can be who you are, girly or boyish with a dick or a vagina no? You can dress like a boy even if you have a vagina tho no? You can still act like a boy whatever your sexual organ is right? The words “girl and boy” is to describe your sexual organ but you as a person are whoever you are despite what it looks like down below right? I dont know how sexual organs and personalities are linked together. I will still be me even if i had a penis since you know, im a female. And honestly, if i was born a male, i would embrace masculinity as much as i embrace femininity as i do right how, since its really the appeal of my current genetic (in a sense that reincarnation exists and i can be born either male/female in each lifetime). I Dont really understand why people seem to overthink sexual organs like it defines who you are. 21st century is full of softies in my opinion, we are too close to comfort that we over think the most littlest things since we now have the luxury to. But i get that it is a real issue since it truly effects people of our generation. I do sympathize but definitely do not empathize. A part of me feels like telling them its unnecessary and to just get over it but another part of me understands everyone has their own struggles and the hurt is still the same.”