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Hello guys! I hope that u're all fine

I have always thought that there must be an optimal frequency in which partners meet and spend time with each other. If a couple in a romantic relationship tend to spend really less time during the week, then there is a risk that they cannot keep track of what's going on in each other's life and feel distant in terms of emotions. On the other hand, when met too frequently, they are prone to lose intimacy and attraction to each other as well as not knowing the value of their company. This can lead to some other problems such as arguments.

I have recently lived a very close relationship with my girlfriend, and we have been even living almost in the same house for the last couple of months, and I'm feeling that this has had lots of problems between us in terms of not satisfying each other's expectations and arguing over very small things. Although unwantedly, I have been sometimes blaming her and talking to her angrily and she has been expecting things that sometimes really gets out of the circle of my attention. This has led to lots of conflicts (although very small ones) between me and her. We love each other and we kinda tried to manage that by communicating with each other every time, but I still wonder why all these has happened and sometimes I feel like they won't stop.

Thus, I decided to make a poll like this. I ask you guys/girls how often you spend time together during the week and whether you think you are ok or not ok about this. At least this can help us understand how everyone lives their life with their partners.

*** also can you please tell me about your experiences regarding this as a guy or a girl, and if you have such a problem we can think of a solution. Those who have had this problem before and know the solution are also invited to the discussion. ***