Search Results: texting ex

Should I dump this guy?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about two months now. Things have been great, but he tells me that he has a crazy, ex that is stalking and harassing him. I start getting numerous back to back phone calls and when I look up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can I trust him? Am I just overthinking?

I can't tell if I am overthinking this situation or if I should be genuinely concerned. My boyfriend of several months has an ex who he still keeps in touch with. They split up a year or so before we met. I have never met...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will a man ever stop trying even though both of you know, he's not into you?

I've only seen my ex once in the early part of this year, but once and a while he texts me and gives me updates in his life. The last update was about his broken drone and him ordering a new one. Today he got it, which...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I keep in touch with my friends ex?

One of my friends, I guess ex girlfriends texted me telling me not to share with anyone else she and my friend had broken up. That she really valued the friendship we had built and wanted to continue it but if i didn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did my “friend” add the guy I was interested in on social media when she never met him and I showed his profile to her?

I was talking with this guy and getting to know him. We connected on social media through a mutual friend. We were chatting about netting and he asked me to spend the weekend with him in New York, and a fall get away in...

Novastarjessa

Xper 1 Age: 38

What should I do?

I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I need to get this off my chest because I want to make it clear to myself and others that I’m not crazy. I met my ex online, and in the first three months, I cheated on him while he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long did it take you to get over your ex? How long did it take to get over what they did to you?

It took me 4 years to get over my ex. I think it took that long because we're coworkers. I forgave him around 3 years ago, but I haven't gotten over what he did to me. I think about it every time he starts to get too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my ex text me after over 2 years?

My narcissistic ex texted me after over 2 years. (Back story: i had dumped him years ago (was tired of his unstable behaviors) then he came back after a month or so and i let him in thinking he was actually sorry, he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My closest guy friend claims he likes me but forgets to answer my texts consistently. What's his deal?

He and I have been friends for years now, and to be completely honest there have been times where it started feeling like it was/could be more than that but neither of us ever acted on it. Recently, I've been making it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?

I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend still hurt for a previous relationship?

Some background : we are in our 50s, my current 3 months boyfriend had a relationship live in girlfriend for 7 years that ended almost a year ago. We had a weekend getaway this last weekend. I checked his phone.. I should...

geeklatina

Xper 5 Age: 50

Is she faking happiness? What should I do? I’m overeating?

I had a situationship for 12 years going on. I never officially dated. I invited him to church and I have a best friend for 8years. I told her that It would be super hard for me if she started liking him. (He’s 30 and...

Yrios20

Xper 1 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Why do some old friends ignore you after high school?

I really don’t understand. I joined three friend groups but it didn’t last. Middle school they stopped talking to me because I’m too awkward, rude and they didn’t ask me to hang out anymore. High school wasn’t great...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Ex dropped off flowers?

So my ex broke up w me last year in January. I was super sad about it. But then we were off and on a little but he never would commit again so I walked away in may. I’ve been no contact for a little over 5 months. He’s...

ivydavis

Xper 5 Age: 24

Flirting

I suspected him — do you think I’m right or wrong?

There’s a guy I’ve been talking to and I’m interested in him. We started interacting five days ago. I also know his ex-girlfriend. Anyway… On the day of the incident, his ex logged into Discord and went online. She stayed...

catgirl1

Xper 1 Age: 31

How do you heal after your ex blocks you everywhere?

My ex had been uncertain about our relationship since April — he didn’t know whether he wanted to stay with me or not. It was a heavy and exhausting situation, because I kept waiting, and holding on for so long. But he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What to say about the phone, texting, to friends?

I am in a relationship where jealousy took the dominant seat. Once I knew I paniced and left to then return after we tried to work it out. I have in the past been in a relationship that was poisoned by jealousy as well,...

Noredcarpet

Xper 6 Age: 46