SShould I text him again or give space?

[Anonymous]

I been seeing this man for a month now. I saw he posted a picture of the bike next to my car on his duet acount. After my girls pointed it out. I was being exclusive with this man without a label. Thats bad on my part I know. I just believed there's just more potential with him then the other guy I was seeing. So I focused on him. Maybe too soon I don't know. Just felt wrong when I caught feeling fast. I dont usually do that but the chemistry we have is electric. So when I saw his profile. Im not going to lie. It hit me. But he never said he wasn't going to be exclusive this early. But he has admitted to be he loves me. His birthday gift came swell today. A gift he asked for. So I liked him on duet to tell him I saw it. He messaged me about it. Seeming defensive that I'm on there and saying things like you will find someone in no time kinda like that stuff then compared me to his ex who also liked him on there calling her a dumb bitch. He let me know he's only seeing me. he's just talking friendly with those girls. Just friends only and he would send me screenshot. I told him it was fine he doesn't need to do that. Then I sent him the picture of the box his gift was in and said it came. He asked what is it. I said the gift you asked for. He asked again what it was and right away asked if I was upset. I told him I understand. He asked understand what? He told me he understands if I ghost. I told him we are only good as our word that's all we have in life. I am not that type of person to ghost. He responded. Don’t worry this might be the last time you hear from me I feel like I hurt you. I respond Sorry my phone crashed out. I wasn't hurt. Like I said I understand. You are busy and things slip your mind. It's hard remembering things with so much on your mind. Especially when you are at work. I get it. Then a corny pick up line and told him to not be hard on himself. I want to also reasure him I'm not mad about the dating profiles thing but that would be like 5 text.

[spartan55]

Wth does posting a picture of his bike next to your car have to do with anything? So weird.

[Asker]

I don't know just caught me off guard he updated a dating profiles while telling me he's been just seeing me and stuff.

[spartan55]

Okay? I still don't get it. Why would that 'catch you off guard'? What does updating his profiles have to do with just seeing you? None of your stalker obsession stuff even makes sense.

[Asker]

I just thought he and I were on the same page and werent exploring because I told him that after we told eachother we loved eachother. I wasn't exploring and when we took it to the next level. I brought it up again. If we are doing this we aren't seeing other people. He got mad seeing my profile on there too. So if he's going to update it. He should be fine with me on there too... right?

[spartan55]

But it was a picture of his bike next to YOUR car. How is that 'exploring' when it is related to you? This is where you aren't making sense.

[Asker]

Because he updated his profile. Meaning he's talking to other people. He admitted he is but friendly. The picture of the bike next to my car was a day we took a trip together for a date.

[spartan55]

Right, so if the update is about YOU how does that mean he is talking to other people? That doesn't make sense hello? Besides you don't know what he is doing based on social media. Stop making stuff up in your head.

[Anonymous]

Sorry. Tl;dr. You lost me at the bike thing.

[Asker]

Oh okay so on one of our dates he took a picture of his bike next to my car. He posted that on his dating app.

[Asker]

My bad

[Opinion Owner]

Why is that important?

[Asker]

I just thought it was weird. To me he would post my car on there especially the that date was odd. I don't know maybe I just got weird because my friends were pointing it out to me. When I talk to him about seeing other people or talking he gets weird but he's out here. Updating a profile with my car in the background. I don't know rubbed me the wrong way especially for what date that was. Like we got intimate and I told him how if we do this I'm only seeing you. But he's updating his profile.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably just a coincidence tbh. Guys don’t usually send messages with pics the way we do. So what exactly did he do that you didn’t like?

[spartan55]

@asker but the update was related to YOU... wtf?

[Anonymous]

Wtf he’s literally a useless player

[Asker]

Well I sent the message and all he sent back was ugh.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude he’s a player for the streets