Search Results: wanting flings

Guys, What is the best text reply to a fuck boy when he gets back in touch to see you. Or is it more hurtful to him to not reply? Help?

I had a fling with a man over 6 months ago. He love bombed me in to bed, then went cold. I initiated all our communication, his replies have been dry to say the least, always keeping me at a distance. He will get back in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is he trying to get my attention or some else through song?

I’ve had an on and off fling with a guy for about 2 years. He started out strong but he would not be consistent all the time and I would get annoyed and give him a hard time about it. We eventually went our separate ways....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Do hookups turn into relationships?

I hear stories of a girl having sex on first date and now she’s married has baby. I met guy on a dating app and he was very respectful , polite, we talked on the phone, he would say I wish I can be with you ( as I had...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Confused by potential fuck buddy’s behavior-is he down or not?

Back in the fall I met a guy who lives out of town but comes in every few weeks for work. He asked me to grab drinks so we did and we kissed after. From the time we left he texted me a ton. He made it clear he wasn’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to bring up the "are you still active on Tinder" question to the guy I'm seeing?

I've been seeing this guy I met on Tinder. We hit it off immediately and when we met for a first date the chemestry was obvious from both sides. We have had only 3 dates so far but it has been going great and it seems we...

Aurora567

Xper 1 Age: 37

Dating

What kind of relationship dynamic is this?

I’d love all ears to put in what they can make of this. A woman I used to have a fling with a few years back (never did anything-not even a kiss) recently added me on IG. Now, this relationship is confusing because we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Guys, what happens to you when you switch from something casual to something serious? What makes you realize you want more in a relationship?

What makes you realize you want more in a relationship? Do you get awkward or more confident? What are things you would never do for a casual fling you would only do for a serious relationship?

Blackbird4789

Xper 1 Age: 36

Relationships

Crazy psycho coworker?

So me and this guy had a fling two years ago. People kept saying that he is in love with me and I broke his heart. A year later he and I had sex and I got pregnant, which ended in a miscarriage. Nobody knew about it. Last...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why would a girl act like this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My summer fling ended bc we didn’t think long distance was the right call. It’s been 4 mo since and we still talk each day. Do I tell him I want more?

I was in a bit of a situationship this summer with an amazing guy. We never put a label on it bc we knew it would end when summer was over, but when August came around, I realized I developed stronger feelings. Upon...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Girls, what does it take for you to pursue and chase a man?

As we all know, in the early part of a relationship or fling, women hold the power. As such men chase them. However, this is not always the case as is often seen with celebrities where not only are they chased but many...

LucasBeastall

Xper 4 Age: 23

Dating

What would you do? How should I handle this?

This guy I had a fling with keeps popping up in my life. And he knows I been in love with him since we started off friends. Well now he is married asking me when I am gonna be single he wants to take me out and date me he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Does it mean he is pretty serious about me if he brought me to his work Christmas party?

I’ve been seeing this guy for the past 2 months and we just established the other week that we are exclusive with each other. We go on dates, hang out and text or talk on the phone daily. He brought me as his date to his...

barbie2525

Explorer Age: 37

Dating

I'm a 40 year old woman dating a 26 year old guy. Am I crazy for falling in love with him? Is it insane to think a long term relationship could work?

I'm currently dating a much younger guy (I'm 40, he's 26). When we started going out I didn't want anything serious. He was a super hot and super fun younger guy who was actively pursuing me and expressing a lot of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

Is it okay for me to continue my relationship with my partner even though he ghosted his last fling?

I'm dating a guy and I'm into him. My friend texted me and told me that he played her friend who I don't know. He chose to date me instead of that friend and the other girl felt led on. I do care about how that woman...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, I have a friend with benefits but I want something more with him?

It started off as a fling, he is a helicopter pilot and he visits me for sex. When he comes through the door in that uniform, I melt. He is confident and dominant and I enjoy submitting to him. He likes to see my legs and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What are the tell-tale signs a guy is looking for a fling?

Signs that he doesn't want a relationship or anything serious with you.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Could this mean anything?

This (now 20m) guy and I (19f) met on bumble last year (lets call him A) and he was one of the first guys i dated. Personally I was swooning on him and he was everything I wanted. He went to uni in another city and we had...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Dating

Was my advice stupid?

There are 2 women I met when I was doing a business course 2 years ago. Anyways, we became friends and meet up every now and then. I thought we would all talk and share details of our lives. But it seemed they were...

lilyanony1

Yoda Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

How is this fair?

So I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years as we have had visa issues and then Covid hit and then we made a visa application but his documents were sent back as he didn't have the right documents.. 2 years...

Anonymous

(25-29)