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Okay let me start by saying
The internet has brought people together from all cultural backgrounds.
in my country where I'm from Children (girl or boy) respect and honour their parents. And this behaviour would not be allowed in my culture.
With that said , I have seen mother's encouraging children to challenge the father's, and I have seen clips with captions saying " daughter scolds dad in store" "adorable girl puts dad on. His place" "adorable dad and daughter arguing over nothing"
Whoa, in my culture her mother, yes that's right , I said her "mother" would say "Enough!!" Stop it, NOW!!" so is the s common on western culture? Because I. My culture it would not be allowed.

Of course I don’t judge all women for being the same. I don’t appreciate it when radical feminists throw all me men under the bus so I try to avoid overreaching labels.

The greatest minority is the individual. I’m a complex person and I can be often be argumentative. Not because I enjoy arguing I actually hate unnecessary conflict and drama. But at the end of the day I just want the best for everyone. I want the truth.

Unfortunately I am seeing more and more females on here who have this attitude that “they want to have their cake and eat it too”. I’ll call them out on it. I don’t care if someone’s emotions makes them “feel” like that bs is okay. I care about WHAT is right vs. BEING right. However I do want to commend a few women who have been exceptionally insightful and can provide good advice. It might not be always what i want to hear but I can tell they really are trying to give me the best advice.

But at the end of the day I will never know what’s really like to be a woman or vice versa. I am aware of my ignorance when it comes to that. It’s tough though. I have to constantly remind myself that women generally don’t think way men do. Our very brains are structured differently.

However I have been on and off GAG for 10 years now. From what I’ve seen women are generally getting worse on here and I know why: modern feminism. That’s not to say I haven’t met a few really awesome women out there. There have even been a few isolated incidents where I met a misguided yet well intentioned woman who identified as a “feminist”. They truly want to know what equality means. Unfortunately that label might of been accurate for these particular women in the 70s but definitely not today.

Anyway I admittedly come here to vent. Every once in a blue moon I do get good advice. But we are all just normal people not a bunch of well trained therapists. I think this website does more harm than good when it comes to my outlook on western women.

Me and my ex had small arguments which were more like simple disagreements caused by me acting dumb such as saying that democrats were fabricating Covid to step on people's freedom when we were frustrated that she couldn't fly in to see me.

She was a bit annoyed with me, understandably so and I apologized afterwards. Other than that, the only drama we had was with her disapproving family members being hard on her. As for my current relationship, we've only had one incident that could be considered an argument which was when I'd contacted a cousin of hers and told him that me and her were together as I'd grown impatient over her not telling her family due to fear that her mother, who's very sick, would throw her out (she's in law school and works part time) because she's absolutely insane with how protective she is with her.

I told her the whole truth about who I'd contacted but only got a response from one person whom I explained our relationship to and even got approval from. I apologized to her and went in depth as to why I was sorry and she forgave me. Besides that, we've never had any arguments at all, not even a disagreement. We're a great match and I'm very thankful that we can both be genuine with eachother and somehow no conflict arises from it.

I think a big part of why we get along so well beyond how similar we are to eachother is how from day 1, we've told the whole truth and nothing but the truth to eachother and trust eachother greatly. Do you and your partner fight?