Am I wrong for this?

Arias
I love women. I would love and care for my partner and practice patients with her to the best of my abilities. I can definitely see myself cuddling and spending time with her; I mean sure there will be times that we will not see eye to eye and even argue, but I dream of those days and try to make it better. She would mean the world to me if she was truly with me. BUT!
Guys, I really hate that I'm about to say this cause as I'm thinking about it I feel like it's kind of narrow minded and shallow, but I'm still very much in the same open minded about the overall situation.
Guys are a lot simpler to speak to. We know what we want and go in for the connection almost right away. It take SO LONG to find a woman that will stick around for the slightest bit, but with guys we want to see where it goes even after sex is out of our system. I definitely am not trying to use guys for a quick fix but some guys have really good personalities just the same, while on the other hand I don't get the chance to even find out if a woman has a personality at all because they seem to like to "dine and dash". I've paid for a simple yet cheap meal, I've paid over $100 for a meal, I've even tried a frozen pizza at home to be close and "intimate and romantic" but it all goes down the drain with them. Some of the guys I've met didn't care if we met in the car, at an airport parking lot or out in the middle of nowhere dirt field, let alone a simple drink at home. It's simple, quick and straight to the point and if we vibe from there we come back for more.

Ladies, what seems to be the issue? I'm assuming there's something wrong with me. I've never did something so spontaneous with the ladies. It was all planned out in some kind of restaurant in public so you feel comfortable and not threaten or feel like you would be assaulted. It's been peaceful and romantic; guys is been REALLY SPONTANEOUS and random af. Am I ignorant, shallow or something worst?
Am I wrong for this?
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