Search Results: first move

He unfollowed me then posted a song about a woman, was it about me?

A guy I’ve been dating on and off for a couple years. When we first started dating he wasn’t being consistent and I got tired of it and we went our separate ways. Later, he tried to get me back and I was now in another...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why don’t I get asked out often, guys just stop talking to me, all of it what’s going on and why is this happening?

At the moment this has been stressing me out for as long as I can remember but after i encountered this one guy the whole thing was unexpected he talked to me initiated things told first told me to hit him up then one day...

laurlaur101

Xper 5 Age: 23

Boyfriend got really mad (really fast), refuses to speak to me and won't resolve things. What can I do to fix this?

We got into a fight a week ago. He hasn't spoke to me since. I still have some of my stuff at his place and he hasn't told me to get it or anything. He hasn't said he wants to break up officially, he just asked for space...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What do you do when the person you love doesn’t love you back?

I’m dumping my feelings on the internet again lol. I don’t know how to move on I guess and I’ve never been in this situation before. I first saw this guy back in 2022 and I liked him the first time I saw him. There was...

LostandFound__x

Xper 6 Age: 28

Education & Career

Understanding Workplace Politics: The Myth of "Hard Work" Advancing You

Welcome to part 2 in our series of workplace politics. This Take will profile the notorious myth that hard work gets you up the ladder, and how so many good employees get frustrated by the fruits of their labor not...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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He revealed to me he has a girlfriend. We've been talking for months and I know he likes me?

Please help desperate for advice I've been talking to the guy I've had a crush on forever since December, he messaged me first and we've been talking paragraphs everyday ever since and a big point first was that his ex...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Reason why Girls/Women give other Girls and Women dirty evil stares?

I was at Walmart with my mom and she was in the vegetable section picking out tomato’s and awhile later a group of three emo looking teenagers all wearing black and a girl with a high pitched voice around my age with a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Had a fight with my boyfriend - now he isn't speaking. What can I do to fix it/save us?

Me and my boyfriend (who I love deeply) had a fight Monday and he has not wanted to talk to me ever since. I left our house and am staying somewhere else because he asked me to give him space to think. This is very new....

Anonymous

(30-35)

When should a couple move in together?

Some people say it's bad to move in together before marriage and some say it's good to move in together first to get to know them better and to see if it will make or break your relationship. I think it's good to...

Simslover92

Master Age: 34

Some people say it's bad to move in together before marriage and some say it's good to move in together first to get to know them better and to see if it will make or break your

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What should I do to get rid of him?

Yesterday I was at the supermarket and I saw a very handsome guy, he was at the checkout and he was with another guy his size, and when the other guy turned around, I think I froze for three seconds, it was his twins, I...

12karen

Yoda Age: 22

Guys, Is he losing interest in me or is he just slowing things down?

So I met this guy on a dating app. At first we texted minimally for the first couple weeks, I was trying to gauge his interest and get to know him. He seems like a pretty well put together, confident guy and we share a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Gay guy got jealous and began to be an acquaintance instead of friend?

Ever since I began to have a love life, (i'm a woman). My gay friend who was my bestfriend at that time seemingly got jealous and said we wouldn't anymore be talking much to each other. I got hurt and was really shocked...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

How do I make the first move on a guy that I like?

I met this guy off of Bumble back in December of 2023. We went on a date on the 22nd of December. From then on out we've been talking everyday and hanging out every weekend. About two or three weekends ago I confessed to...

Bgurl2_0

Xper 6 Age: 31

Other

Should I message this landlord again about an apartment or just wait until she messages me first?

I viewed an apartment 10 days ago on Monday March 4. She said she was showing the apartment to one more person on Wednesday Mar 6. And then they’ll make a decision on who they want to move in. I texted her on Friday Mar 8...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I viewed an apartment 10 days ago on Monday March 4. She said she was showing the apartment to one more person on Wednesday Mar 6. And then they’ll make a decision on who they want to

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Is he trying to get my attention or some else through song?

I’ve had an on and off fling with a guy for about 2 years. He started out strong but he would not be consistent all the time and I would get annoyed and give him a hard time about it. We eventually went our separate ways....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How different are you from your friends?

They say you are who you hang out with, but I was pretty different from my friends. When I started middle school, I was already deemed a hoe by association because the only people who welcomed me at this new school was...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Why do guys text me in pretty after first date but don’t ask me on second date?

I’ve had this happen a few times where after a date a guy will text me saying I’m very pretty. I then say thank you and that I had a good time. They never move to a second date.

Cooljaguar

Xper 2 Age: 27