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My girlfriend has been sexually rejecting me for 8 months now. At first I thought we were just having a dry spell and she just needed space.

Recently I organized a summer vacation for us. Again, she was talking really sexual. Saying “where gonna have so much sex”, my vagina will be all yours for 4 weeks, and we’re gonna have sex in car”. We only had 3 times on our trip after begging her for it.

I had so many thoughts of her potentially cheating so I set up a decoy. My buddy rob had sex with her in the past. She doesn’t know that me and rob are friends. So I asked rob to text her and she responded and chatted with him for a bit. At first, she was honest and told me a guy named rob from her past messaged her, but. Now things are getting sour.

Right now at this very moment she’s laying beside me sleeping. And again, she refused sex like always. So I asked rob to call her multiple times, she woke up and kept declining. I asked her “who’s calling?”. She lied and said random number 😬

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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?