I baby trapped a guy who is 38 but it doesn't seem to work and now I have to deal with raising a baby at just 23, by myself?

[Marina22]

I know I did a stupid thing. I wanted to keep him with me. I lost my v card to him when I was 19. It was a Tinder one time thing. But it didn't end there. Every time he came to the city for work related stuff, we met at the hotel. My life was turned upside down. I tried to end it. I dated other boys, closer to my age, I even had a relationship, but I cheated on both boys with him. I was disgusted with myself for hurting people like this so for the past year I didn't date anyone. I have been always available for him. Mom, Dad, friends, no one mattered for me anymore. Yet, for him everyone was more important than me. I did everything to be the best I can be for him. Stayed super fit by going to gym, taking extra care of my skin, hair, clothes.

Everyone assumed I am just a gold digger because this guy is wealthy. He has a medium size hotel chain and a other stuff like some indoor pools. I isolated myself and only felt alive when he was around. He told me he is not ready to commit and one time was beyond honest and said one day he will commit but not to me. I cannot give him stability. Yet, he never really vanished. He always called if he was around. I always said yes. He was too amazing, too intelligent, too calm and charismatic. He is somehow attractive, but that wasn't even so important for me.

I got pregnant on purpose. I told him. There is nothing that can be done about it anymore because I am beyond abortion. I told him if he will not be a part of my life I will give the baby up for adoption. This made him react and he called me around midnight. He was very aggressive toward me. I never saw this side of his and now I am terrified. I will not give the baby for adoption. I just wanted to scare him, but I have no money to raise him.

Also, he said things like I am brainless with a cheap job and no future and I can barely write my own name down, even if it is in front of me, which is just weird to say. He called me many things.

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also, I am 23 not 21 as profile says.

[lightbulb27]

Legal rights to support and he knows that.


Work to give child best sense of worth and stability and build sense if family. If he won't care find someone else whom will.


Stop lying , tell truth. Child is learning now before born. Go to church and find christ, both gonna need.

[lightbulb27]

Not all your fault. He was there too.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

You clearly state that your intention was to baby-trap him, even though you knew it was nothing serious for him. You've not only attempted to manipulate him into being with you, but have now placed an innocent child in the picture that you cannot take care of properly. I cannot think of anything more selfish and short-sighted.

If this is even real... I have no sympathy for you, sorry.

[Kelley1]

If you live in the USA and if, as you claim, he, not some other man, is the biological father, he will have to pay you child support and, since he is wealthy, it will not be a small amount (perhaps 20% of his income.) That will be enough to give you good life for the next 20 years.

[BadApple69]

He may Not like it but legally in most states he will owe you child support. You know without a doubt it’s his, right?
And yes what you did was stupid. This guy even told you that he wouldn’t settle down with you. He was just using you for sex…. Well now he needs to pay child support.
Do it! It’s for the baby who is innocent in all this.

[DannyUk2017]

Stupid Action! 🤷‍♂️
Now you'll learn the hard way!

[Staximus]

All you can do is stop doing stupid shit and making poor life decisions. I don't know why you are so obsessed with some guy that treated you like you're just a piece of ass, like you have to prove, are going to change him or his way of thinking or something stupid like that. Like you saw a future with somebody who didn't see a future with you, and that's where you fucked up. You should have just moved on with your life. Now listen up and listen good, You need to learn how to stop your tendency to self-sabotage and how to not set yourself up for failure and disappointment. Stop being the source of your own misery. There's a book called "Unfuck Yourself", you should read it.

[Skinhead-1979]

Sorry... it might be hard to hear; but this is all your own fault. He has no responsibilities what so ever towards you, you deceived/ tricked him.

As if deceiving him and getting pregnant is not enough, you are also blackmailing him with abortion or adoption.

You have issues... please seek help before you cause more damage, to yourself, the foetus/ baby and other people in your life or whom you will meet.

[BoopBoopBeep]

"Everyone assumed you were a gold digger"... yes... yes, because by your own admission you baby trapped a man who is clearly financially better off than you. That's pretty much what gold digger means. I hope he gets sole custody of the kid and you have to pay him child support for the next 18 years.

[katiesmuff]

What a fantastic story which includes so many unnecessary facts about this totally fictional pile of crap so early this Sunday morning. I always thought the Trolls slept in on Sunday's, but I sure was wrong with that thought.
Have a nice day and when schools begins this fall see if they have a 6th grade story writing class you might take.

[TheLovelyIntrovert]

The jab about your job and intelligence tells me he might try to get full custody. How do I know this? Because it's the same reasons I used against my ex to get custody. Never have a baby thinking a man will stay and don't make yourself miserable staying with someone who doesn't love you.

[Daniela1982]

And we have a new winner for today's award.

[OlderAndWiser]

IF you are not trolling. . . consult an attorney about filing a court petition to determine paternity and make him pay child support.

[Apple1996]

That's what happens when you get with older men. If he really wanted a child and relationship he would have done that years and years ago with a woman his own age

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

Please do let us all know when the next instalment of this most exciting story comes out, won't you!

[Abbycado]

“Also, he said things like I am brainless”

Spot on for doing that to him.

[Staximus]

You always have some snappy answers haha

[Abbycado]

@Staximus Ty and thanks for the like and notice ❤️

[StudyingAuthor]

No ma'am. That was not a good move. Sorry, but it wasn't.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Stupid games, stupid prizes. If a man doesn't wanna be with you, he won't. Work on yourself instead of breaking yourself down.

[exitseven]

I feel sorry for your baby. You should consult an attorney to determine if you have any rights in this matter.

[DrPepper12]

You made a mistake. Its not an end. Gather your strength, support group and patience. You can do this. He WILL support the child with legal support.

[fonduegirl]

Well, what did you expect from him? You did babytrap him, girl. You had those names coming.

[HumbleDragon]

So what’s the question? Whatever it is the answer is still a big YES

[LiamJHayden]

Well "baby-trapping" someone with no income, assets, or future is not exactly wise.

[Anonymous]

Well. . . I suppose you won't have NO money to raise him. You'll be able to milk this guy and his wealthy family for child support.

[spartan55]

This is some poorly written fiction. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Hey, could be worse if he's that rich he could just have you eliminated

[Anonymous]

You never saw teen mom?

[letmex-plain]

Takes balls to do

[Reliable]

This post feels like a trap 🪤🧐

[Anonymous]

What are your goals?