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I have a girl friend, who I've known since around May. She has a boyfriend so I always looked at her as a friend.

Since December, she became very flirty. Lots of touching (massaging, playing with my hands, fixing my hair a lot, touching my neck, etc.) And sexual jokes (For example, I showed her a hoodie and asked her opinion on it, she said if she saw me in that she'd spit on it, then told me with a flirty smile that that's not the only thing she'd spit on, or I accidentally squeezed her neck too hard and I told her I don't know her neck that well yet and she asked "Well, you want to get to know my neck well?"). Or when she said something slightly mean I told her I'll punish her and she said she'd like it and I'm turning her on. And tons of other examples like this. She's also not bothered by the fact that people think we're together.

She told me I'm her last thought before sleep, I told her don't joke around and she said she's not joking (I still think she was joking haha). Or when she almost tripped she said "I almost fell on you" and I said "Well you already fell for me anyways so what does it matter" and she didn't deny it and smiled. Another similar situation to this when she said my coworker loves me (romantically) and I told her "She's not the only one" and she blushingly smiled.

So I'm kind of confused on what I should think. I'd like to think she's just joking around but she says and does these so often that I don't know anymore.

(Please be respectful in comments, this isn't a post for shaming people or calling names) A while back I met a girl a few years ago who told me that she was a virgin which I thought was cool. I'm not so as long as your body count isn't higher than mine idc. But she told me she wanted to wait for marriage and her being a virgin I agreed. Then later on her mother called her a born again virgin and I was confused. Apparently a born again virgin is a non virgin women who converts to a religion usually Christianity. After I found out, I broke up with her because it's not fair to make me wait and not other guys. A year later I found out she started sleeping around again after we broke up and I felt I dodged a bullet. What are your thoughts on born again virgin? To me its made up to make non virgin women reclaim the pride they once had before having sex and to attract more men, if she had told me she wasn't a virgin and didn't wanna wait till marriage I probably wouldn't have broken up with her, but the whole born again virgin thing feels manipulative and sneaky.