My guy friend is very extroverted. He is touchy and feely with other girls in our friends group and also jokes a lot with others but I feel he is kind of reserved around me. I haven't done anything out of line as much as I know. We are much more comfortable talking in group than just us two. There's this hint of awkwardness, even when I try to talk and bond with him. I am very introverted so it's big thing for me to make small talks and I have always been really open with him. He doesn't avoid me or anything and is always ready to give me company when I ask him to come with me. He is very observant and he remembers a lot of details about me which surprises me seeing his behaviour. Many times, when we go all out , this guy kind of maintains distance with me but somehow keeps checking upon me. When we all get ready , he hypes others a lot but only complements me in private. I never forced him to comment on me or anything. Sometimes, I feel he is uncomfortable around me so I start to give him space and then he becomes concerned if I am fine or not. It feels like a lot of push and pull is happening. Does he want to be friends with me or not? Does he feel forced to be with me? I never complained about anything and I usually mind my own business. I don't have any problem in maintaining distance if he doesn't like me. But what is this mind game?
He sounds cute 🥰🥰, anyway he is interested in you and he doesn’t know how to make the moves. Like everyone here’s already said.
If you’re braver than him and you wanna take this further, and since he is willing to come whenever you call, that’s a green light to me/feu vert to get him hangout with you more, and slowly get him to be comfortable and talk about it…!
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It sounds like too much overthinking on your part.
There is no mind game. Good lord stop overthinking. Stop comparing how he interacts with you versus everyone else. Stop watching him like a hawk. Everything isn't about you.
Sounds like he is interested but doesn't know how to express it to you
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Nobody knows what his mind game is we don’t know him in person
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