Search Results: flirting when taken

A co-worker acts interested in a relationship with me then turns cold. He doesn’t do this with other females. Why do I get this flip flop personality?

I work with this guy who sends mixed signals. I understand this is a red flag and will not pursue a relationship with him. I want to understand his behavior better though and need input. He will take time and flirt with...

Honey3157

Xper 5 Age: 46

I'm confused by a girls mixed signal?

So, for context: I've been stonewalling (for reasons) and I find myself in a city I've learnt to like and be ok with. I am getting better and I think I want to move. This girl visits my workplace for a few days, and when...

Ggtth

Xper 2 Age: 31

How long would you wait to reach out to a girl if you aren’t sure about her feelings?

I recently had a meet cute with this guy, whom I met at work. It felt very serendipitous because it came out of nowhere, and how we met felt dated. but we were at work so I was still in the work zone and didn’t really go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

I apparently misread this situation but I don’t understand how?

I downloaded an app called pure, which is basically an anonymous hook up app. Its entire purpose is sex. I matched with this girl, and we ended up sexting the first night. I had told her to always let me know if she is...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do dates or relationships ALWAYS fail for me?

Okay so dating and relationships have always sucked for me. ALWAYS. The only relationship I’ve had was with one of my former classmates (he’s neurodivergent like I am) from a private special education school we went too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm confused over his what his intentions are?

so I've met this guy in bumble and we matched and he immediately asked my instagram id and wanted to meet as soon as possible. I initially agreed but then later realized that its kinda sus to go meet him just after...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is she acting like this?

So I made a new friend 6 days ago she keeps telling me to break up w my boyfriend I can do better she always wants me go to her house or take her somewhere she wanted me to quit my job and work w her she has a boyfriend...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When you are talking to a guy, not dating or offical couple yet, how long does it take for a first kiss?

I never had a boyfriend so I don't know what’s normal or not. My first kiss was at 18, from guy at job. He gave me rides home daily& texted daily & the first kiss was fast. First date was fast too. But after that we never...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Did I mess up, or is it a lost cause?

I met this guy through Discord intending to make friends, but he took it to another level (which I don't necessarily mind). I never dated before, but it genuinely felt like those initial dating stages, not a friendship...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he flirting with me?

my friend’s family friend has started messaging me I’ve met him a few times in the past they’re kind of far away but I’ve considered him a friend. But recently he has started liking all of my Instagram stories especially...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he flirting?

So my friend’s family friend has started messaging me I’ve met him a few times in the past they’re kind of far away but I’ve considered him a friend. But recently he has started liking all of my Instagram stories...

spookycatt222

Xper 1 Age: 30

Flirting

Am I thinking too hard on this?

I was talking to a coworker about a trip I just took to the beach. The first question that comes out of his mouth is “ Did u wear a bikini? I was like yeaaa…? Stuck because where that come from lol. Im thinking he just...

aharris45

Xper 5 Age: 25

Everytime I go to this same fast food place this woman always calls me hun or baby and is very sweet and nice to me?

So I go to this fast food restaurant a lot almost and when I do go there this same woman takes my order through the drive through and is always nice to me saying will that be all hun and when she gave me my food in the...

dbroomfield95

Xper 4 Age: 31

I have to let her go, because I'm too crazy about her?

I work with this girl and we've been good friends for a while. We've always had great chemistry. Other people we work with say that we would make a perfect couple. She's even made jokes that we would end up getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Does my friends have a crush on me? Advice?

We have been friends for going on 4 years. He is an awesome person. We are in a religious strict environment so I never have alone time with him because my friends are always with me and his friends as well and we try not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is there really no chance of friendship with this guy I like?

i went on a 1st date with this guy i've thought was cute for like forever. it was going soooo well, but when we got back to his apartment, he tried to hookup with me. i dont get with guys the first time i meet them, so i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would he do this and leave me frustrated 😂😩?

Context: Me (35F) Basically have been flirting with this guy friend (41M) I’ve known for a few years now. We’ve only ever been friends with a crush for each other. But nothing ever progressed and we only ever hung out...

Smnthajoe

Xper 1 Age: 33