Search Results: guy uses excuses

My old guy friend who was very verbally abusive keeps coming back after years why?

He used to tell me bad things about me to my face and always found every excuse to avoid so why does he contact me years later

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend's *enis is too hard that sex hurts?

My boyfriend isn't bad in bed tho he rough sometimes I don't mind certain positions I can tolerate the pain but it's like a metal steel pipe being shoved into me and rubs to the point the friction hurts and doesn't feel...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I just turned 18 and I can not longer use being a minor to ward off creeps. How can I stop older men from speaking to men or following me?

Since I was around 14 I've been catcalled by adult men some of which knew my age and didn’t care and others who just assumed I looked older. It’s not even teenage boys, 95% of guys my age know never to follow or shout...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I give up looking for a girlfriend?

I got rejected 13 times in a row approaching girls. I never was rude either when i got rejected. I say to the girls,”excuse me, i thought you were pretty, is it fine if i get your number. All of them either said,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is he being like this suddenly?

So, there's this guy i started to get to know for around a week and a bit. He seemed interested in me but one night he broke down saying even after 5 months he still wishes to go back to his ex. I tried to not show im...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Be honest, do you think shorter women are more successful in dating than a 6’4” woman like me?

I’ve been having a difficult time with dating. Guys have rejected me for my height, I’ve been ditched before a date has started and quite frankly I think women under 5’8 have more success in date more likely to get...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

I matched with a guy and he shared one weird detail about this parents, Is it a red flag or should I go on a date with him?

I matched with him, we flirted a bit and planned our date this Wednesday. Yesterday talking on call, out of no where he shared how his dad use to spank his mom. I weirdly said "Umm.. okay" and he still continued saying,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating Tips For Guys

I can feel the eye rolls from here, a woman...giving us...tips...blah blah, but with any advice, take it or leave it, but listening to your complaints about dating, thought I'd give my perspective... 1. Stop going to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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I don’t know what to do I just need a friend or some advice and help?

Hey it’s been ages since I posted on here maybe because no one really wants to give me advice especially if I don’t listen to them. Anyways I have known one of my guy friends since the age of 18 and have liked him for 6...

ZainabAli123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Is it just guys who fear being smothered in a relationship, because their partner is the curfew enforcer?

Many men use the excuse of not wanting to be in a relationship as being because they don't want to have to be back by a certain time at night. How come I never hear women having this same fear? Is it because men generally...

Bethany22

Guru Age: 31

Girls, I ran into a guy I dated in high school. Should I tell my present boyfriend about this?

At that time, I went through a bad boy phase. He is tall and strong and had a feared reputation around school. I would go behind the school with him to make out, and I would be sitting in the desk in front of him and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend keeps asking me for money?

My boyfriend keeps asking me money we used to split everything or take turns paying when we go out to eat but he just stopped and expect me to pay for everything. (We don’t live together) Last week I got a little extra...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My guy friend's new girlfriend hates me?

My guy friends new girlfriend hates me. My friend group is me, another girl, and three guys. One of them, I'll name him Josh, has a new girlfriend and for his birthday he had a pool party. I wanted to meet his girlfriend...

Kimchi_doll

Xper 4 Age: 21

Online Dating: Time waisters

So I am on a run again, and here we go....! People turn to online dating for a variety of reasons. They are lonely. They are recently single and want to see what else is out there. They have hear rumors and are curious...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Why do people with high IQ still make stupid choices in life?

I'm well aware that no matter how smart we are we are still imperfect human beings in the end of the day and we are all prone to make mistakes. however there are and have been lots of people in life with high ass IQ who...

Filthy_Immigrant

Yoda Age: 39

How do you get over someone?

keep trying the "get under someone else" method and trying to find more love but I just keep getting heart broken. I'm not over stuff keep getting reminded of one of the last guys I was dating. he started ghosting me and...

kareenakapur

Yoda Age: 29

Why would he try to (get me to) break up, but say he’ll fix things every time?

A year ago I finally fully ended things with my ex. He was extremely emotionally abusive. He’d use the things he knew would hurt me most and do exactly that or worse. At the beginning, he even abused me sexually for about...

Anonymous

(25-29)