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I think dating apps are helping me as much as they’re hurting?
I’ve been out of the dating game for pretty much my whole life. I’ve been working so hard just to get my money right and up to a livable place. So it was to the point, up until now basically, that I just didn’t feel like...
Anonymous
(30-35) Approaching dating intentionally as a man?
There’s a ton of game and propaganda out there about how you have to talk to women like this and that and game her emotions. Does… simply being forthright and honest also not work? Why does everyone have to act like...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do spell casters improve strategy games, or just feel unfair to players?
Pros: adds some diversity to gameplay. Cons: really hard to balance. Can seem unfair to new players even if it does get theoretically balanced. Abilities in question: Energy Start with 50 and regenerate 15 Energy per...
SeekerOfTruth007
Xper 7 Age: 45 Why is my restaurant job passing me over for shifts and promotions?
I have been working at this restaurant for maybe 8 months. I am not perfect, but I work very hard. This has been proven by my other employers. I learn quickly, I do my job right and to the best of my ability, and I stay...
aribaby
Xper 3 Age: 24 Did I just get played?
I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
Anonymous
(25-29) How hard is it to find and train a dog breed suited to your job?
Today I went to get a hair cut at an elite hair dresser and I was greeted by a humongous golden poodle who would not let me through the door without sniffing me first. My family was there too and I noticed, it would...
Do your parents lecture you on money?
My dad always lectures me about money!! I NEED TO GET MY OWN MONEY!! He doesn’t understand anything i want to buy!! My dad doesn’t understand buying Kpop albums. He’s so annoying. He always brings up apple music, and...
MusicTokuXX
Xper 7 Age: 26 Are people just bad at emotional communication in relationships?
I understand everyone has different needs and wants in a relationship. But I think a lot of men and women are bad at communicating what they need and want what leads to bigger resentment later down the road. This is...
How do you know when dating effort is healthy vs trying too hard?
Breaking up in the early stages of dating isn’t personal to either person or at least shouldn’t be to those who are mature it may hurt at times. But when you reach a point whether you’re male or female… Where it feels...
If a guy pursues me on Instagram for years with no response, is it real interest?
He had been trying to get to know me since 2019. We are both 36. We both are fit and attractive. To me it’s hard to believe someone would pursue me for that long specially since I paid him no attention.
Iggy200
Xper 1 Age: 36 Is this true or?
So my dog likes to counter surf a lot and been trying to teach him not to. I had made bagels this morning and I just finished them and he tried to get them but I quickly pushed him away (not hard or anything) I had to act...
Anonymous
(25-29) Who exactly is America at war with?
Here's a screenshot of my ship tracker showing the chaos America is causing. Ships destined to all over the world held hostage. Most of these aren't even from Iran. Let's be honest, America doesn't give a shit about...
purplepoppy
Master Age: 26 Do people actually chase you more when you stop being so nice?
I have this sensitive and sweet side of mine and I do attract people easily but I feel like things don’t deepen much when I am showing that side. On the other hand, I have kind of feisty and blunt and detached and...
Does acting less available actually work as a dating strategy?
I feel that I met several men who disappear for a while and then come back randomly. Or simply they will reach out to me just to say hi and then bounce back to their shell for no reason. It’s like a weird cycle that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is 25-30 too old to get married for a woman?
Due to my type 1 diabetes diagnosis, aunts death and the struggles I had during my early teenage years I graduate at 25, currently unemployed and I feel it's just getting hard for me and honestly I couldn't find a good...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is modern academia hopelessly toxic and unfair for PhD students?
I have felt that academia is not meant for students anymore. It has become very toxic. I have seen my friends in PhD in STEM suffer so much and ultimately quit or get fired and this has become so common. And most...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it better being in a relationship or alone?
Dating for a gen Z male is really hard for most. Girls live on social media and seek perfection. Good looks, tall, in shape, rich, smart, enormousD I might have all those things and more - but it still is a kill joy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope
About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
How do I know if I made the right decision of breaking up with my boyfriend?
I started dating this guy who I had on a pedestal for basically my whole life because we’re family friends and he’s a very hard worker and very dedicated to his work which I always admired. He’s super creative and he’s...
Anonymous
(18-24) My wife said I'm an absent father?
My wife wants to stay at home. I realized I needed to go back to school and get masters degree for that to happen. Right now, I'm working on a STEM Masters degree, working an internship, and my wife is pregnant. We have a...
Anonymous
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