Search Results: how do i keep his interest

Is my friend a pick me or am I overthinking (please read until the end)?

I have this beautiful friend who is super generous and i love her, she's unproblematic and outgoing and a green flag. but she isn't always herself around boys. I've been a rock/metal fan my whole life and when i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Did I get plenty?

Me '24/f' have been talking to this man 'M/28'for about 4weeks now. We met online, he wasn't initially my type, but he was applying pressure and it caught my interest. I met him on hinge he seemed genuine, we live two...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do about this guy at work?

Worked together for 7 years. I’m 33 he is 52. I’ve always liked him I’ve been confused about my feelings for years due to the age gap and work dynamics but as it’s been so long, I can’t keep going on this way as my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I abort the baby?

So my ex basically told me he wasn’t really interested in me and that he was only having sex with me because i wanted to and that he didn’t see me as someone he wanted to be with. He said he’s been trying to break up with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is it normal to developed feelings for someone you didn’t have feelings for?

I can’t stop thinking about my guy friend. I don’t a relationship romantically but lately I’ve been thinking about him every damn day. I’ve rejected him so many times when he asked he out on a date. I told him I have no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Does he see me as just a friend?

OG Post: Does his physical touch mean he likes me? As I (25 F) spend more time with my guy friend (20 M), I realized my feelings are growing stronger. He has opened up to me yesterday when we hung out an office he had...

LuminousMind

Xper 6 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Why would he do this out of the blue?

He blocked you to try to control you because you seen right through his manipulation for 9 months and you cut him off for the same amount of time. You both work together. He gets mad controlling and upset at you talking...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If a guy says he’s emotional about breaking up with you, is he really?

I know it’s a stupid question. I’m 36 he’s 39. We didn’t actually define the relationship so I’m not sure if it’s a real “breakup” but I’m treating it as such because I was interested enough to date only him without...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Can’t tell if he’s interested or just friendly?

One day he seemed very flirty w/me then next he’s just being a pal. We’re in the same theater organization (I’m new). Anyways, when we had to move stuff from the temp theater where we did our recent play, can’t tell if he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Can any guys help me on this situation?

I met this guy from a dating site back in 2023. We talked for awhile online 1st before meeting up & we had one great date. After that he messaged saying our started relationship but I told him we should get to know each...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

What made him so that?

likelove

Xper 1 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy that says he wants to be just friends ignore me when I finally am ready to be just friends with him?

Last week, I went over to a guy (we're also coworkers that work on different shifts) who I ocassionally hang out with 's house. He has previously expressed interest in me for quite a few months even last year, but I had a...

Ccmama

Xper 6 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

What kind of guy says he adores you but then behaves disrespectful towards you?

I work with this guy. I have no interest for him romantically but he does me. He got drunk at a work party and declared his love for me. I shut him down. Before and after this event he did some really rude and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

I snapped at my boyfriend and now he's upset. Should I just wait it out?

A few minutes ago, I snapped at my boyfriend. The past few weeks he has been extremely negative, and all day yesterday, we were talking about his current situations coming up. I kept telling him to try to be more postive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What am I supposed to do?

i'm texting this really cute guy and he's shown great interest in me, after 3 days of talking he asks me to be his girlfriend, i say no telling him to wait a little because well we don't know eachother, he says alright....

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Guy's Behavior

What’s his problem this happened at work?

So, this guy I never talked to started developing a strong dislike for me because I’m friends with a guy named Al. He kept telling people, mocking my voice by saying "Al, Al, Al, Al." After that, it seemed like he had a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

I need guidance on how to handle this?

Hello so there is a guy who I met in my class. He seemed nice and very friendly to everyone and he still is friendly to everyone but something happened that made me wonder what should I do. So the conversation of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How can I work to get someone to like me? (Serious replies only)?

My best friend told me that there was a person who they became friends with on the job and they are really good friends. I've only met the person twice, three times counting a brief interaction. Both times I have...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Attending the same school, 2 years of guessing. I've gotten to know his sister over the past 3 years. Is he a shy guy crushing or playing mind games?

This has been going on for the past 4 years. We were in the same science [online] class for a couple of semesters in a row during the pandemic. I remembered his face from the online class interaction and recognized him...

JustMe6580

Xper 1 Age: 26

Dating

Guy will not leave me alone is this staking?

This guy followed me on insta in 2018 because of location tags. He seemed normal and inboxed me and then I found out through a friend he’s a grifter who tries to find wealthy women to date - I immediately wasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)