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Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me.

Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will never understand, and I don’t get how people relate it to insecurity either. Like I’m supposed to want this?

And look swear down I’ve got a huge tool, I know that but I wouldn’t want another potential man to have ‘piped’ her as good as me, I don’t want her to have shared an experience and comparing me to other loser dudes, I want no sloppy seconds either.
Again, am I supposed to want these things?

Yes, I am aware this standard does rule out most women.

It baffles me how a guy could get on one knee for a girl that isn’t a v*rgin.

For clarification: As a guy I´ve been switching in and out of the dating circle. I´m also confronted with women that either complain that no guy asks them out or that there are no good guys left. So thinking about it, I´ve been wondering if many women actually want a guy that takes the iniative and takes the lead. I come from a liberal culture where traditional gender roles have been replaced by what ever feels good and a family with very assertive women I´ve been wondering if male passivity is part of the issue of current dating culture.