As a tall man what should I do or feel when a short woman is standing really close to me and I can see right down her cleavage and bra?

[Anonymous]

To be fair I'm 6'5" so almost all women are short as fuck to me. I only see a woman that's closer to my height like once every six months. Why you ladies gotta be so fucking short? Jk.

But either way I live in a climate that's really hot so as you can guess most women are not dressed very modestly. Almost no women wear high necklines which makes sense due to the heat but it's a pain in the ass for me.

Worst part is when a woman's neckline is not even low but due to the angle which I look at women it becomes low. So for a neckline to be high for me needs to be a borderline turtleneck anyway.

But either way I hate this. I try my best to not objectify women but if I want to make eye contact with them I have to practically look at their tits at the same time due to the angle.

The only angle in which I can avoid this is if I'm sitting down and the woman is standing up but unfortunately this doesn't happen very often.

It also doesn't help that there's been somewhat of a braless trend. As in not the majority but a good number of women. So I not only see their bra but literally just their naked tits and nipples.

The most obvious solution is to just not make eye contact but that just makes things weirder as in what's wrong at you why won't you look at me when I'm talking to you. That's what they say to me.

Some people may think being 6'5" is awesome but for a lot of reasons including this one and perhaps mainly this one it's not really. I wish I was around 6'0" instead.

I don't wanna be a creep but to look at their eyes I'm basically looking at their tits at the same time. Not sure what I should do or feel.

[Orion84]

I don't know exactly what to tell you, except for the obvious: don't look. 🤷‍♂️

"Sure, easy for you to say," I suppose, except that I'm 6'4", so I understand exactly what you're talking about, as I find myself in the same position, every day.

Not looking at their chest, or down their shirt, is really all there is to it. Just practice looking at a woman's face, instead. Focus on her eyes. Sure, her chest will still be in your field of view, but that's a far cry from looking directly at her bra or nipples.

There's really not much you can do about the height difference, but trust me; it's really not that difficult to not look down a woman's top, no matter what she's wearing. I never see anything, unless I'm looking on purpose. If I can do it, so can you.

[Asker]

Somewhat generic advice that basically boils down to just don't do it but that's also really good and makes a lot of sense.

It helps that you're basically in the same position. I don't think that extra 1 inch give or take makes a huge difference in this matter.

The advice may be generic but for this situation it's basically all I can do. No other way around it. Just look at her eyes not at her boobs.

Sounds like it's hard at first but gets easier with practice.

A tip could be to wear sunglasses in case I slip up but that wouldn't take care of the problem. I can't just wear sunglasses all the time. So as you said just focus on her eyes.

[Orion84]

Yeah; it really is just the most basic kind of advice, but as you said, that's pretty much all we can do. Fortunately, it does get easier with practice.

Once you get good at focusing on her eyes, it eventually overrides base instinct, and just begins to come naturally over time. You won't even need sunglasses.

Their chests will sort of sit at the edge of your vision, but they'll be blurry and out of focus, so you won't even notice them.

[Anonymous]

Just have fun looking. Besides, what are you gonna see that you don't already have?
Maybe eat something that leaves crumbs and when some fall in there, offer to dig them out for her.

[Asker]

Damn. Not sure if the crumbs idea sounds like the best idea ever or the worst idea ever.

[Anonymous]

After awhile enough guys have looked down my shirt or seen me naked. When I was 13 it would have been a big deal. Now I don't even notice, unless I want a guy to look.

[Asker]

Makes sense. When you're underage it's a big deal but once you're an adult it's whatever I suppose.

[Nikki1989]

I expect men to look; just don't stare.

[Asker]

No offense but I half expected you to come and answer this question lol. Not an insult or slander just saying. I'm glad you did though glad to have your insight.

Your advice makes perfect sense. Basically just look but don't stare.

[Anonymous]

Im short do what all tall men do to me and pretend to be looking into my eyes while staring at my tits.

[MisterPandemonium]

Does everyone stare t your tits, or just tall guys?

[Opinion Owner]

@MisterPandemonium all guys are taller than me.

[MisterPandemonium]

How short are you?

[Opinion Owner]

@MisterPandemonium 4ft6

[MisterPandemonium]

Oh my goodness. And you're 18-24?

Do you like being that height?

[Opinion Owner]

@MisterPandemonium it has its advantages

[MisterPandemonium]

What advantages?

What do you look like besides being so short?

[Asker]

So just pretend huh. Sounds fair. Just fake it until you make it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Four feet six? Even my Aunt Marjorie was four feet nine!!!

[beefcakebradybatson]

Be discreet and DEFINITELY don't creep out the lady, but it's every lad's birthright to peer at the abundance in her bra.

[Asker]

That's a great solution. So basically just be careful and respectful. I can look but keep those two things in mind.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Look at her eyes, not down her top. Like, okay, you can see what she's got, you don't have to stare at them.

[Dargil]

Do nothing. Feel gratified.

[Asker]

Sounds like the best solution. Nothing to worry about.

[Alex-Snow]

Just enjoy the view but do not perv on it

[Asker]

That makes sense basically just don't go too far.

[Alex-Snow]

Agree.. good plan. Try to avoid getting a boner each time also if that is possible. For me it is a challenge!

[itsannalee]

Just don’t look

[Asker]

All I can do I suppose.