Search Results: make these feelings stop

How to get him to make up his mind?

This one is a little complicated - for the last almost 20 years I've been sleeping with this man. Both of us didn't have feelings for each other until the last few years. We are both in other relationships with kids but...

Curiousandhavetoask

Xper 2 Age: 39

Is this cheating or otherwise suspicious or am I just overthinking/overreacting?

I can't believe I'm even typing this, but I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me. I don't suspect anything physical yet, but I do suspect emotional cheating in the sense I feel like he is lying about being in touch...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What steps forward should I make with this situation?

I admit that what I did was wrong overall, but we both clearly need to work on this. A few months into our relationship, my partner became emotionally distant and stopped being intimate without explanation. I tried to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My new partner makes jokes about me cheating a lot, was I wrong for leaving?

He started the relationship by lying about his age by one year and also hiding the fact he had two kids including a new born. We didn’t have the best start. I told him it’s going to take some time for me to trust him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice needed please?

My parents get mad at me every time cause they don't want me on my phone texting this guy that l used to sort of date/talk to. Like my phone always gets taken away and stuff every time they find out that I text him and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Holidays

My boyfriend ditched me on Christmas, is there anything I can do to make him start prioritizing me more?

My boyfriend flew home for Christmas tonight from a business trip in the UK. It was a long flight and I asked him to check in with me when he landed so that I know he got in safe. We had planned for him to stop by and see...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Need opinion on feelings am conflicted?

I met a girl a year ago. From start, I was honest and told her I wanted something serious, but it’s hard to connected. She said she wasn’t looking for anything serious but was open if it naturally turned into something....

doggyman7q

Xper 1 Age: 30

How to deal with stares?

I know a lot of women gets stared at by these creepy men, I was wondering how you all deal with it? I am from the uk. I go to work and come back from work. There's this dude who makes me feel really uncomfortable...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is this happening to me I am loosing myslef?

so this is my first year at college I wanted to be unknown and not have drama with someone so I went and I met this guy who really treated me nice on text and I thought I finally found the one because my love life at high...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Every time I try to end it with him he tells me to “just chill out”?

He makes me feel disrespected and dismissed. I like him as he has some good qualities, but he hurts me sometimes. When I try to talk about my feelings he says I’m crazy and dismissed it as I’m “overthinking”. He mentioned...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I Have a Huge Crush on My Mom’s Boyfriend. I get jealous. How Do I Move Past It?

I have a massive crush on my mom's boyfriend. He's incredibly charming, ridiculously good-looking, smart, funny, and the kind of guy who makes my heart race. Every time I think about him I get all giddy and excited...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How 2 message a guy without coming off as a creep when we had a professional relationship. Since it is now over I want to see if it was serendipity?

They've gone above & beyond due to their concern of my safety and well-being. We've had a couple moments of prolonged eye contact that made the world around me freeze. I can feel their energy behind me when they walk past...

Serendipity2024

Xper 1 Age: 31

How do I stay focused on my goals while dating?

I have a problem. I have a lot of personal goals and I am a budding entrepreneur. I don't get a lot of opportunities to date and I don't waste much time with game playing which is the norm these days. The problem I have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend says he loves me but I don’t feel loved. can that be true?

When I first met my boyfriend, he was completely infatuated with me. He wanted to talk to me constantly, would get anxious if I disappeared for hours, and seemed genuinely afraid of losing me. But since we’ve gotten into...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I wrong for feeling a little uneasy about this?

Is it wrong that this is bothering me a little bit? Hi, so my boyfriend has been acting a little weird the last few days, he is usually very communicative, doesn’t really go out, and we have a pretty good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

How do you not let yourself get personal or get personal feelings about coworkers?

I’m starting to realize maybe I’m delusional because most people at work seem to be able to not take things said there personally. They are able to joke around and have small talk even about their lives and yet they don’t...

Jjiiyyuuu

Xper 1 Age: 34

Is this a problematic text?

Context: we got into an argument bc I told him I only feel loved when I can be physically and sexual with him and that I don't feel like he really cares bc he stopped doing a lot of the things he used to and he...

Kinky_Slutt

Xper 4 Age: 20