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They've gone above & beyond due to their concern of my safety and well-being. We've had a couple moments of prolonged eye contact that made the world around me freeze. I can feel their energy behind me when they walk past and know it's them without even looking. The way we met was entirely off serendipity & literally impossible but it happened. They have a professional job that I'm afraid to message them from as that's the only contact I have although I did find them on social media. I have yet to give them a thank you gift I've been hoping to give them for a job well done in appreciation for being there for me when no one else was. I think about them daily since October. I find their soul absolutely attractive and their height makes me even more weak. They are over ten years older than me and I'm not sure if they are worried about these things. I want to get to know them but I'm not sure if I should wait as the professional relationship ended last week. I also don't want to wait too long due to life being short and I don't want to miss my chance with them. I'm not sure how to speak to them without coming off as a creep. I'm absolutely curious if they feel the same way about me as I do for them. They know I'm going through a terrible time in my life so I'm not sure if that has to do with it too or they just afraid to lose their job or the age. I really want to get to know them better and Im not sure how to shoot my shot. Id absolutely be extremely happy to find out they feel the same way but I also want to know if they perhaps don't do I can stop manifesting so hard. I find them to be everything I'm looking for and when we lock eyes it's like we can't stop looking at each other. I know I can't be just dreaming. If someone can please explain one what this is or should I just hope they reach out. I'm not sure what their history is on relationships but I never saw a ring or anything so I'm just blankly wondering daily what was that and do they feel what I'm feeling?
How 2 message a guy without coming off as a creep when we had a professional relationship. Since it is now over I want to see if it was serendipity?
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Just ask them to get coffee, or ask if they want to extend the relationship to something more personal. Guys usually won't think you are creepy unless you are stalkerish or don't let up. So just ask, and if he responds no, or doesn't respond, leave it at that.
I read all of your question details. In the headline for your question you refer to a specific guy. But then in your details you refer to "they" and "them." What am I missing?
Ah yes I should brush up on my grammar you are right. I'm completely only talking about them as in "him" they as in "he" lol. Thank you for pointing that out, I needed that!
No problem.
I think it would be appropriate to send a gift to him at his work to acknowledge his kindness to you. It doesn't much matter what that gift might be. (It could just be a thank you card.) Doing that would show you care and might lead to something more. You mentioned that you didn't see a ring so he's probably not married. But he could be in a relationship.
He's married, forget it.
He doesn't have a ring how do you know he's married?