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I think most might assume if someone gets nervous around someone on the opposite sex that they might be attracted to them. But have you ever been nervous around someone of the opposite sex you have no attraction for? Maybe you got bad social anxiety perhaps and you get nervous around everyone?

And if it wasn't attraction why were you nervous around them?

This cute girl started recently and she is quite nice. I didn’t think too much initially when she was presented (maybe that she is cute but that’s all). But the past couple of months I found that she has a really cool personality. Really nice, smart, sense of humour. She remembered some details for me even tho we are in different departments. We joke around. We had a very nice conversation about her hometown while travelling from work once and it seemed that she enjoyed our brief time then. However I never really though anything for my colleagues ever. For me they are just colleagues. I am kinda one of the cool colleagues with whom you can always talk to and get help and people usually expect me to do something in a convo. But here I am wondering after I kinda got nervous talking to her the other day.. heart pumping, weird. There is this one colleague who gives her a lot of attention and sits next to her. They joke around and stuff. Even gave her “jokingly” a “my-work-wife” bracelet. Yesterday I got a notification for her profile in Facebook. Was wondering if should just add her (I rarely add coworkers). I can talk shit in front of people for hours, but when it comes to the romantic side of things, I am kinda weak. So maybe just sit on my ass and pass? I have enough work and sh*t to ignore her but I find myself thinking…maybe she is just a good person and I shouldn’t mix things (today she even gave me free lasagna that she made for some cook-off they were doing at her department…talk about the way to a man’s hearth is his stomach.) So continue talking to her, add her on Fb and plan to ask her out?

My work colleague keeps looking around for this guy who comes in. We work in a small grocery store. I don’t talk to her so I can’t ask her why she is looking for him

I know that they had a brief moment where she smiled at him and then she was like always being near him but now she’s nervous every time she sees him

he looks at her and then she leaves her section briefly and walks near him and then goes back but she doesn’t look at him

i caught her today literally turning her head around from the register she was working at like she was looking for the guy in my opinion

question is why would she be doing this when she’s meant to be working?