Have you ever been nervous around girls/guys you had no feelings for?

[Still-alive]

I think most might assume if someone gets nervous around someone on the opposite sex that they might be attracted to them. But have you ever been nervous around someone of the opposite sex you have no attraction for? Maybe you got bad social anxiety perhaps and you get nervous around everyone?

And if it wasn't attraction why were you nervous around them?

Yes i have been nervous around someone of the oppostie sex i wasn't attracted to before

No if im nervous around someone of the opposite sex it was because i had some attraction for them

I don't get nervous around people i have attraction for actually

[SillyMari]

I'm an autistic person and I can say.. I get nervous around almost everybody..

If I don't know you that well.. My mute side kicks in where I barely will talk and just not know what to say and might come off as random.

[Still-alive]

Would you say you’re even more nervous around actual guys you like? Or is it the same as with a guy you are just friends with?

[SillyMari]

Well I'd say its more pronounced when around a guy I like..

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm an autistic person. I don't like to be physically between people :D

I don't think I'm nervous anymore. But I, for sure, was. Now, I just observe from afar. Most people don't like it :D

[Still-alive]

*feels watched* :o

[SillyMari]

I'm autistic and I'm the same.

[electromagnetic]

I used to work with rich families and sometimes they requested house visits. That used to be the most nerve wracking thing I had to deal with. I didn’t consider them people I was attracted to but they made me incredibly nervous.

[LaurenM1997]

I never know what to expect when talking to a guy so yeah I do get nervous even when texting

[Still-alive]

but i mean even when you aren't attracted as in he;'s just a friend or just a guy you know?

[LaurenM1997]

A bit of both because I get anxiety a lot

[LaurenM1997]

It takes me a while to come out my shell

[LaurenM1997]

Even with guys who are friends it’s difficult cause I get nervous and I say the most stupidest stuff ever and then I’ll be like why did I say that 🤦‍♀️

[Still-alive]

aww, i been there too. every now and i again i'll just randomly remember things i said to a girl and cringe to myself lol. like 'wow i can't believe i said that, smh'

[LaurenM1997]

Then I’ll be like that wasn’t supposed to happen and go off and think about it and cringe and get mad at myself lol 😂

[mono_gram]

Yes, probably because I knew that he liked me even though I didn’t…

[goaded]

I used to get nervous in interviews. That had nothing to do with sex. The first interview I went into without wanting the job, I aced.

[RebelinSteel]

No, I don’t usually get nervous with people. I am sometimes hesitant if I fancy someone, mainly as I am debating what to do.

[Wiredone]

I'm not nervous around anyone. It doesn't matter if I'm attracted to them or not

[Kulotz]

It happens A LOT to me

[Still-alive]

Really? because of social anxiety?

[Kulotz]

I dont know. Sometimes I randomly pick someone and cannot look in the eyes, but after some weeks I behave normal towards them. I have social anxiety, yes, probably it is the reason. Recently there is a guy in my class that I cannot not look him in the eye. probably he thinks that I attracted to him or something but actually he is kinda ugly. When I talk to him I talk distantly and avoid eye contact lol it is kinda funny

[12karen]

Yes. It's just make me nervous sometimes

[Still-alive]

being around guys you aren't attracted to?

[12karen]

Yup.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I sometimes do

[laly520]

um nope

[clampfan101]

I’m just shy.